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spervioletlight · Jan 25, 2009, 04:37 PM

Hi,
I have never had the best of relationships they never go right no matter how much I want them to it just does not happen my most recent expericances have ended in my heartache and being cheated on a number of times! I just get hurt but I'm young and life goes on
I just want a nice guy thts all so I have got my eye on someone I have liked for a little while who bearly knows I'm alive so how do I go about it? Help

Poseidon934 · Jan 26, 2009, 02:04 AM

You've got to put yourself out there and break the ice.

You have to get the ball rolling and make him feel comfortable around you. As a woman, in general, your job is to give the guy the opportunity to get to know you. Make sure you are open and friendly and see how he reacts.

If you feel really bold than just tell him that you have noticed him and that you want to get to know him better if he wants to go out sometime.

Just keep things casaul and see where it goes. The first step is to get him to know that you are alive:) And if he is not interested than at least you will know and won't have to wonder as much anymore.

People have established lives so it takes some time to bring in new friends and love interests. Just be open, friendly and see where that takes you... you'll figure it out...

450donn · Jan 26, 2009, 01:30 PM

Generally speaking Mr niceguy is NOT the jock or the most popular guy in school. He is the nerd that is sitting there quietly trying his best to get the best grades so he can go to the best schools and get the best jobs. You just might surprise yourself if you started talking to these guys and actually find out how smart and funny they can be.

neville kisia · Jan 27, 2009, 02:23 AM

Try me

Aphrodite77 · Jan 28, 2009, 07:04 PM

Well.. if you really want a relationship that lasts you have to pick the right guy.. pick a guy that you can trust.. I call them the "good at heart" guys.. the trick is to be able to recognize an when you see one.. some people are just good at reading people.. if your not successful at that.. ask some people around you what they think of that person that you have interest in.. Never start dating a person that's too much of a mystery and that you can't figure out.. those will lead to things like cheating and heartache... here's a good one.. get to know the person first..