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    kidshelpphone Posts: 13, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 24, 2009, 12:35 AM
    Did she make her point or should I move in
    So I've recently started getting to know this girl and she really awesome and stuff and I've gotten up the courage to ask her out and she said yes when we both move back to saskatoon but after like 2 weeks she started talking about this guy named doug and how he kissed her and she kissed him back and I kind of got hurt and felt my heart sink and when I feel hurt I shove people away out of pain.. but I don't know if she still wants me she says she does but when we text or talk on the phone she kind of falls into her own world and hardly talks to me.. should I just move on or is there a chance I could still have her


    p.s she says she misses having a boyfriend and I told her that she could get one and I wouldn't care but she said no its OK and I told her it would be OK its not like were going to date for a while and she seemed kind of hurt but then decided it moving on:(
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    Jan 26, 2009, 04:06 AM

    Here is a concept that I like to follow... it's called confident persistence... if you want a girl go after her, but do it on your terms and don't let it dictate your life... any girl worth having will have other guys around her. And if you show her what you got and she doesn't like you 'that way,' you're no worse for the wares and at least you tried.
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    Jan 26, 2009, 09:05 AM

    Seems to me your feelings are a bit more powerful than hers, as I don't think she feels the same way about you. I wouldn't want to be with a girl who just wants a boyfriend for the sake of not being lonely.

    Back off, in my opinion. You are a bit too emotionally involved as compared to her.

    Carry on... :cool:
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    Jan 26, 2009, 01:56 PM

    Do you really think by moving in with her things would change. If your unsure already about her wanting to be with you then would you take a leap so big by moving in? Please attention to the red flags but there ar many in case.

    How long have your been datin? How old are the two of you because this doesn't seems like adult thinking?
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    Jan 26, 2009, 02:36 PM
    Move on!!
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    Jan 28, 2009, 07:43 PM
    Sorry hon... it's a dead case...

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