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    sassymyass Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 21, 2009, 01:48 PM
    He cheated, she's pregnant
    He cheated, she's pregnant
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    Jan 21, 2009, 05:42 PM

    If he's your husband tell him he still has to pay child support for the kid.

    If he's your boyfriend - get another one who can keep his hoo hoo in his pants.
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    Jan 21, 2009, 06:37 PM

    He cheated, got a girl pregnant, now he has to take care of his child.

    He wanted to be with this woman sexually, well, now he has the whole cake.

    As for you... let him go. Once a cheater, well you know.
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    Jan 21, 2009, 06:46 PM

    Well, you have the option of leaving.

    However, if you stay, don't try to keep him away from the child because the child did nothing wrong. Don't make him choose between you or the child. Instead be encouraging and accept the child. Don't be like many other women that can't accept nor want their partner to be in the child's life after an affair. He has a duty to be a dad and whether if he choosing a fiancial obligation to that child.
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    Jan 21, 2009, 06:48 PM

    You can stay with him, but if you do... you might resent him and not be able to cope with him having this child.

    It might be painful for you.
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    Jan 21, 2009, 09:12 PM

    Honestly if I were you I'd let him go and if it was worth it to cheat on you and be a total he doesn't deserve you at all.
    Leave him.
    If he wanted her once let him do what he wants
    You can find someone so much better.
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    Jan 22, 2009, 03:48 AM
    He cheated, she's pregnant
    He wants to be with me. He, of course , will take responsibility, if the baby is his. But he seems to think he has to give her money, rides, & for some reason thought he had to give her a christmas present. He says he doesn't want to be "a piece of **** father" he doesn't seem to understand he is not a father until the paternity test says so. He doesn't need to have anything to do with her until then. And even then, if he is the father, he doesn't have to have any contact with her, what so ever. And, by the way, the christmas present was a ring that we had gotten from some one at a fair price, but it really wasn't my style. I wanted to sell it & get one I liked. He "had to get the poor girl something!".
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    Jan 22, 2009, 04:40 AM
    >Threads Merged<

    Please stick to ONE thread for this issue.
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    Jan 22, 2009, 04:56 AM

    Issues are already coming up and I really don't think your going be able to handle the situation. He is being noble and thouhtful to her and showing her respect because after all she might be carrying his child.
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    Jan 22, 2009, 09:06 AM

    You can't tell a guy how to act, and if he has already cheated, and is going to support this child, he will do it his way.

    You need to make a decision for yourself how you will deal with these changes in your life, because you have an option of leaving anytime you want to. Till you do, be prepared to put up with his behavior.
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