[Fidelio]

Hi,

My girlfriend is 3 months pregnant and broke up with me. For emotional issues. It is not something we cannot work on and actually I am working on it. She refuses to work on it.

The result for now is that she has cast me away from the picture. She wants to raise the baby on her own. I am in great pain as I want to be this father and raise our child. It seems to me pretty selfish what she is doing, not only towards me, towards the baby too. I am working on providing the stability she couldn't find in me, which led to the breakup. This is going rather well, soon I'll be able to show her that I am stable. My hope is that then she will reconsider her position. Because for now, I love her but am very very hurt and angry at her for doing this.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,

Fidelio

[talaniman]

Back off and don't rock the boat while she is pregnant, as after the baby is born she may feel different, and if not, there is the court.