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doingforlife · Jan 18, 2009, 12:23 AM

Hi All,

This is rohith, 30 Male,, Can you help me I want to stop my lovers marige,,
She is going to marrige another person, but I can't live without her,,

See this time even she is also, ready to marry the third person,

If I can stop her marige, is it make any sense,

Please I need your vaulable advices,

Yours suggestions are appritiable,,

Clough · Jan 18, 2009, 04:20 AM

Hi, rohith!

Is there any reason to think that her marriage should be stopped other than you want to be with her? Also, you mention her as being your lover, so it would help if you would clarify what you mean by that.

Thanks!

stevetcg · Jan 18, 2009, 06:46 AM

My vaulable advice is to get over her. If she is marrying someone else she obviously isn't that serious about you.

You CAN live without her. You are going to have to. If she is marrying someone else, if you love her, you will get out of her way and let her.

shannonbug · Jan 18, 2009, 06:27 PM

Originally Posted by doingforlife

Hi All,.

This is rohith,, 30 Male,,, Can you help me i want to stop my lovers marige,,,
she is going to marrige another person,, but i can't live without her,,,

See this time even she is also,,ready to marry the third person,,

if i can stop her marige, is it make any sence,,

please i need ur vaulable advices,,

yours suggestions are appritiable,,,

The only problem is it seems like you want to crash her wedding because you need her. Well think about what she wants if she is happy then you have to let it be even though it will be very hard if you don't believe she is just pull her aside talk comply and gently to her and ask her if she is happy first. Then if she says she isn't ask her why she is going through with it if she is then tell her how you feel. If she is all you can tell her is that you are their for her and you love her in so many ways if she ask like how tell her if not just leave it at that

N0help4u · Jan 18, 2009, 08:12 PM

Doesn't sound like much of a lover if she is marrying somebody else.
You can't make somebody love you. Wake up smell the roses and move on.

Fr_Chuck · Jan 18, 2009, 08:14 PM

Sounds like she has moved on, or has decided her future is with someone else.

You may love her, but her actions suggest she does not feel the same.

Perhaps getting some counseling to help you move on would help

Lowtax4eva · Jan 18, 2009, 08:18 PM

MOVE ON, as others have said. I don't know what kind of relationship you currently have with this girl (nor do I care to know)

You need to leave her alone before she gets a restraining order