[Green Elephant]

I dated a girl for about 2 years. She broke up with me about 8 months ago, and messed around with a couple guys, while I just tried to heal and pursued no one. Now my parents have been divorced for about 14 years now, and my relationship with my dad is non existent. However, This girl and I have started dating again about 2 months ago, and she's been doing very well proving to me that nothing like that will ever happen again.

My problem is... last Christmas My Dad called me and said this girl was not welcome in his house, and he could not believe I was giving her another chance. I want to confront my Dad and say that I appreciate his concern, but he hardly knew her in the first place, and I don't mind getting his advice, but not when he yells at me over the phone (when he's made no prior attempt to be a proper father to me)

Anything words will help. Thank you.

[Justwantfair]

So don't take her to your father's house, you apparently do not see him often and you should just worry about being happy.

I assume that you will be all grown up and making your own decisions and living on your own shortly (I hope) so just abide by his rule, it's his house.

[talaniman]

His house, his rules, end of conversation.

[MiSSsy111222]

I agree, its your dads rule. Just don't take her to your dads

[Fr_Chuck]

My now ex wife ( married 10 years) was never welcome at my mom's house, we went one time, when dad died, besides that if I went I went by myself