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budy_soso · Jan 9, 2009, 09:39 AM

Hi evey one

Am 23 years old
I love agirl and she love me also, but we are far a way from each other, we had been together more than one year but something happened to me made me go to work in another country after 5month I'll back to her but we'r not together since September last year, she promised me to wait for me till I come back to her and she will do her best to wait me, but am scared if she will find another guy, I don't know but I just fell like that.

I don't know what should I do? And I can't go back now or after 1month I have to wate until I finish my work... am worry about that.

Hope you can help me...

Thanks a lot

kctiger · Jan 9, 2009, 11:13 AM

Deal with your professional issues, and let the rest take care of itself. In the end, you cannot control what she does, and who is to say some woman doesn't walk into your life that won't melt your heart? That is the beautiful thing about life, it is unpredictable.

liz28 · Jan 9, 2009, 01:10 PM

I remember your other thread because I answered it and I can understand why you feel the way you do. However if the two of you get back together you need to be able to move past the situation and be able to forgive her fully or not get back together with her. Almost if you get back with her don't use it against her whenever you've the chance because it wouldn't be fair.

Being able to trust someone again is hard but it unhealthy for it to consume you. So you need to step back and think if your up for this and know long distance relationships are hard and it takes a lot of trust.

ja77 · Jan 9, 2009, 03:08 PM

My honest take is that long distant relationships are a very hard.

You are both miles a part and at some point will both be thinking I wonder what the other is up to.

Can you give a little more info please - what was it that split you to up in the first place - this may help us to give you a better ans.

Thanks JA

budy_soso · Jan 10, 2009, 09:02 AM

Thanks to all of you,
But I still keep in touch with her, I mean every day we talking and sms each other, but I think it's not enough to make sure...

Is there other way? I need something to do, something to make it sure for it? Because I really love her and I won't lose her, so help me if you don't have mind...

Eelarch · Jan 10, 2009, 09:56 AM

When you sms and call her in general do you always call her or does she call you?

If she calls you first this shows she wants you lots and will make the effort just for you

If you always call her step back a bit and wait for her to call you,this might sound silly but then she will think about you more

budy_soso · Jan 12, 2009, 11:24 PM

Yah, I always call her, but sometimes she start to call&sms me, but sometimes when chating togther she tell me that there is some one come to her and he like her and something like that, I don't know what should I tell her, I just said "up to you, just follow your heart ok that's all what i can say to you"

I don't know if I should give up for her or what??

liz28 · Jan 13, 2009, 05:48 AM

Calling and sms isn't going help ease your mind because distance is between the two of you and that's what started this problem in the 1st place.

If your going to forgive her than forgive her and let go of her wrong because that's the only way your going be able to move forward. It's like a fresh start so if your going start fresh then start fresh and bury the past in order to move forward.

Again, it's isn't going be easy but think positive. If you can't then it might be best to let go because no matter what you can't control her action, you can only control yours and I can understand why your having a hard time trusting her because she broke it.

You need to take time to

liz28 · Jan 13, 2009, 05:49 AM

Calling and sms isn't going help ease your mind because distance is between the two of you and that's what started this problem in the 1st place.

If your going to forgive her than forgive her and let go of her wrong because that's the only way your going be able to move forward. It's like a fresh start so if your going start fresh then start fresh and bury the past in order to move forward.

Again, it's isn't going be easy but think positive. If you can't then it might be best to let go because no matter what you can't control her action, you can only control yours and I can understand why your having a hard time trusting her because she broke it.

You need to take time to reflect if she is really what you want and who you want to be with.

budy_soso · Jan 14, 2009, 07:49 AM

Should I forget her?! Even I can think about that, OMG I'll try to do something eals, I will try to do my best for it...

Thanks a lot all of you guys...

Eelarch · Jan 14, 2009, 01:15 PM

Originally Posted by budy_soso

should i forget her??!! even i can think about that, OMG I'll try to do something eals, i will try to do my best for it...

thanx alot all of you guys...

Well you asked and we here are a lot of "helpful friendly people"

chrissymarie · Jan 15, 2009, 03:11 PM

Just be patient and keep in touch with her as much as you can. If its meant to be she will wait for you. 5 months really isn't that long...

budy_soso · Jan 17, 2009, 08:31 AM

Yah thank you so much Chrissymarie,

Hope every thing will go with my as I want...