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leugim · Jan 3, 2009, 11:00 AM

I have 2 years going to eat to a place close to my work,where I met this women ,and I like her a lot a few months back I ask her if she was single and well she has a boyfriend,after a while I told her how I feel and she told me the she just move with her boyfriend and let see how things going ,and after that I start flitrting with her and she allways smile,sometimes we just look each other in the eye and smile and she smile back ,every time I go there she is always aruond me ,maybe is just me and every time I show her no intrested ,she tried to get my attention ,I really like this girl ,sometimes it feels like she is the one ,but I don't know what to do.

ja77 · Jan 3, 2009, 11:08 AM

This girl has a BF that means off limits to you or any other guy why she is in a relationship with her BF.

I'm sure if she was your girlfriend you would not want another guy doing what your doing to this girl if you where going out with them.

Find somewhere new to go eat.

liz28 · Jan 3, 2009, 11:47 AM

You do nothing but step back and respect her relationship with her boyfriend. If you can control yourself around her then do your best to stay.

It okay to like someone but be careful who you like. This girl most be in a committed relationship because they live together and you don't want to come between her and her boyfriend anyway, right?

Find someone that is single and available. Never mess with someone that is taken. No good karma can come from it.

ja77 · Jan 3, 2009, 11:53 AM

Find someone that is single and available. Never mess with someone that is taken. No good karma can come from it.

I agree - if they can cheat to get with you, then they can cheat to get with someone else when they are with you.

artlady · Jan 3, 2009, 12:10 PM

She is enjoying the flirtation but she is off limits!
As others have stated... bad Karma .what comes around goes around and someday it may bite you in the butt.

If she told you to wait and see what happens with the live in BF she is a player and in my book that is not ever the *one*.

JBeaucaire · Jan 3, 2009, 04:38 PM

Just think... if you keep this up and manage to entice this girl into your arms, you have

a) turned her into a cheater
b) become a cheater yourself

Excellent. Mom would be proud.

Further, if you manage to get her to first break up with her BF and THEN come to you, I don't find you in a much better position. After all, if you can do it to him, someone else will be able to do it with you. Yes?

Only flirt with available women. Your feelings for them are irrelevant if they're spoken for. You do want YOUR girlfriends to be left alone, don't you?

leugim · Jan 4, 2009, 05:16 AM

I guess I'll have life take it's own course

popcorn708 · Jan 4, 2009, 06:04 AM

Right I have the same problem but there's something's I try but don't work but might work for you so first of all get flirty then whose she flirted stop straight like that don't speak then ask her what's her boyfreinds name meet him or not or live the countery when he's not looking when living just think of it is a hoilday or just stay in contry will he's looking if don't know what the I'm taking about email me at [email protected] or it didn't work hope worked

liz28 · Jan 4, 2009, 06:47 AM

I don't think it's a good idea to start starking the boyfriend. The best thing for the OP to do is to leave this girl alone and find someone who is available.

Now Popcorn, I couldn't clearly understand what you wrote but are you telling him to get info on the boyfriend? If so, didn't you say it didn't work for you? Don't you think it's best for him to leave this girl alone?

In life your going always like someone but you can't always be with the one you like. So you move pass that person and sooner or later your come across someone else you like. Shoot, I like Will Smith and wouldn't mind being with him but he's married and I'm engaged and being that he's star, we won't cross paths anyway.

ja77 · Jan 4, 2009, 07:04 AM

ask her what's her boyfreinds name meet him

This is a very bad idea.

This would sure lead to massive problems.

JBeaucaire · Jan 4, 2009, 06:15 PM

Originally Posted by leugim

I guess i'll have life take it's own course

Oh, my, I believe you can do MUCH better than that!

Look, if you don't actively and systematically pursue good things in your life and for your life, I promise you the universe will pick things for you. And the universe doesn't care about your individual best interests, so odds are HUGE you will end up in an undesirable and/or ineffective life.

Do NOT "wait" for life to do anything for you. Make good plans, then pursue them.

iluvher8888 · Jan 4, 2009, 11:32 PM

I have the same situation. I really like this girl because she is pretty and flirts with me a lot. What I am doing is just being her friend and still flirting with her but to an extent because you never know how the other person fells especially if she has a boyfriend. If you really really like her you will wait for her to be single then tell her how you feel that is my plan and I really hope it works for me and you. I know the feeling of seeing the one you love be with another guy. It really sucks.

chrissymarie · Jan 6, 2009, 02:21 PM

If she told you she has a boyfriend respect that and stop all the flirting. Your just torturing yourself. If she wants something with you she'll ditch her boyfriend but you shouldn't try to do much more to influence that.

batman76 · Jan 17, 2009, 03:58 PM

Well I am leugim the person who post this thread ,I lost my pasword and I sing in with other name user,anyhow,I did what people suggest me to do ,first I start to treat her normaly then I stop the flirting I stop going to eat to that place ,I stop seeing her,and all this it just feel wrong!my friends told me the was something wrong with her and she stop going to work now, that is to many coincides,the I mention the is very shy,the I hardly connect whit people and now the I find someone I just suppose to give up,my friend told me if you don't see a ring she still fair game, I feel a connection whit her every time we look in each other eyes I know the universe does not care

batman76 · Jan 17, 2009, 04:15 PM

About my individual best interest,I also know the this is not fair for her boyfriend but what in life is it,I long time ago I let go the women I just to love ,why shuold I do this again,because I have a high percetage of bad karma ,because is the rules ,my heart tells me different,I goint to have to trust my gut, AND MY GUT TELLS ME GO FOR IT!

batman76 · Jan 17, 2009, 04:20 PM

Besides ,we have to work hard for want we want in our lifes ,my life ,my decision.
Life is short,break the rules ,forgive quickly ,kiss slowly ,love truly,laugh uncontrollably and never regret anything that made smile.

Aphrodite77 · Jan 28, 2009, 08:17 PM

Just go for it.. make a move.. in the end she'll decide if she's fed up w/ her current boyfriend yet or not.. if she's not married.. she's single.. maybe u'll end up being the better one for her..

ISneezeFunny · Jan 28, 2009, 10:00 PM

Jesus, what is it with the horrible suggestions on the boards nowadays? AMHD really needs some sort of a weedout process to get rid of the wackos.

With that said, a girl that has a boyfriend is OFF limits. If she liked you enough, then she would have broken up with the boyfriend to be with you. The reason she is STILL WITH THE BOYFRIEND is because she LIKES HIM.

Imagine this. Say your girlfriend met a guy at a restaurant and this guy wants to make a move on your girlfriend. What would you do? PUT YOURSELF IN HIS SHOES!

Leave the girl alone. Don't let "things take its own course." Make your own course. Also, don't "approach the guy" or "meet the guy"... what's that going to do? Are you trying to intimidate the guy? That just shows how immature you are. What if the guy's twice your size? Then what?

Back off the girl.

uhhleesha · Jan 28, 2009, 10:15 PM

Don't cross the boundaries of boyfriend/friendship line, line everyone else said.

However, boyfriends come and go. Just be a friend for now, and see where that takes you.