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    thampoo Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 2, 2009, 12:49 AM
    Finding Roumer-er
    How can I find a person (source) who is spreading roumer about me. People talk at my back and could not cooperate or give any respect and support to me. I feel very lonely and friends are no more friends as they feel I'm a bad character person
    Should I ask people directly what they think about me and who told them so
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    Jan 2, 2009, 01:14 AM
    The only solution to a rumor is to ignore them. No one will want to gossip about you if it doesn't bother you.
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    Jan 2, 2009, 01:33 AM

    Also if you're previous friends are no longer your friends because they think you're a bad character then ask yourself "I'm I a bad character/influence?"

    Do you do things that others disapprove of?
    Do you drink a lot?
    Smoke A lot?
    Swear a lot?
    Beat your spouse etc... the list could go on forever but you get my point, is there a reason your friends are no longet your friends?

    If not the rockerchick is right, the best way to handle a rumor is a deaf ear. The person starting these rumors won't stop just because you don't lik it they'll probably get more fired up!
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