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    THEpurplepeanut Posts: 195, Reputation: 8
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    Dec 24, 2008, 02:59 PM
    No one seems to care
    I feel like no one cares about me at all. It seems like at home no one cares until their favorite shirt is in the wash and they want it now , or if the cat puked on the floor, or if the dishes need to be washed, or the toilet needs to be cleaned. At school no one talks to me unless their "good friends" aren't in the room and they're bored. If I talk, people hear me but they are not listening. My "best friend" doesn't talk to me unless there's no one else to talk to. At home I get blamed for everything like when my brother broke the window I had to help pay for the window even though I didn't even do anything, or like if the dishwasher isn't working right, it is all of a sudden "my fault". What can I do about this, it also doesn't help that I'm the wall-flower (quiet person) and that some people make fun of me because I'm smart and quiet. I need some advice. :(
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    Dec 24, 2008, 03:25 PM

    How old are you?
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    Dec 24, 2008, 03:29 PM

    Almost 14
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    Dec 24, 2008, 03:38 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by THEpurplepeanut View Post
    almost 14
    Ok, so your in middleschool, that could be why you feel people don't care about you at home, you're a teenager, so your parents want you to take extra responsibility for things
    Have you ever tried to get your friends attention, maybe because your quiet they assume you don't want to talk
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    Dec 24, 2008, 03:42 PM

    Do you have any hobbies or interests. Quiet people are often alone, but that changes when they start doing things they enjoy, and are involved in activities they like.
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    Dec 24, 2008, 03:45 PM
    Posted by AManWithNoName

    "Ok, so your in middleschool, that could be why you feel people don't care about you at home, your a teenager, so your parents want you to take extra responsibility for things
    Have you ever tried to get your freinds attention, maybe because your quiet they assume you don't wanna talk"


    My parents don't make my brothers do anything around the house and if all three of us are in trouble, my parents look at me when they are yelling, at least it seems like it, I admit it, I do need to talk more, but when I go to talk to her she just sits there not even paying attention to what I'm saying. Plus it's been hard with this whole boyfriend thing going on in my life. I had two guys like me at the same time and I let the wrong one go, but I learned my lesson of judging a book by it's cover, lol I had to learn the hard way. But thanks for the advice and happy holidays!
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    Dec 24, 2008, 04:01 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by THEpurplepeanut View Post
    posted by AManWithNoName

    "Ok, so your in middleschool, that could be why you feel people don't care about you at home, your a teenager, so your parents want you to take extra responsibility for things
    Have you ever tried to get your freinds attention, maybe because your quiet they assume you don't wanna talk"


    my parents don't make my brothers do anything around the house and if all three of us are in trouble, my parents look at me when they are yelling, at least it seems like it, i admit it, i do need to talk more, but when i go to talk to her she just sits there not even paying attention to what i'm saying. plus it's been hard with this whole bf thing going on in my life. i had two guys like me at the same time and i let the wrong one go, but i learned my lesson of judging a book by it's cover, lol i had to learn the hard way. but thanks for the advice and happy holidays!
    Ok, I've said this to tons of people, and now I'm going to say it to you, try being single for once, it never hurts to be single, why is it that you feel you have to be in a constant relation ship?
    As for your friend, hbave you ever tried to get her attention by tapping her shoulder, or any thing like that
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    Dec 24, 2008, 04:15 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by AManWithNoName View Post
    Ok, I've said this to tons of people, and now I'm gonna say it to you, try being single for once, it never hurts to be single, why is it that you feel you have to be in a constant relation ship?
    As for your freind, hbave you ever tried to get her attention by tapping her shoulder, or any thing like that
    I'm just trying to get over him, I kind of like being single, I don't really feel like I need to be in a relationship anyway, as for my friend she doesn't care about anything anyway maybe I'm just being over dramatic
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    Dec 24, 2008, 04:26 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by THEpurplepeanut View Post
    i'm just trying to get over him, i kinda like being single, i don't really feel like i need to be in a relationship anyway, as for my friend she doesn't care about anything anyway maybe i'm just being over dramatic
    Naaa, if you feel your friends aren't being friendly twordes you, your not being dramatic
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    Dec 24, 2008, 11:23 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by AManWithNoName View Post
    Naaa, if you feel your freinds aren't bein freindly twordes you, your not bein dramatic
    Thanks for the advice, lol at least some people care:)

    p.s. merry christmas
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    Dec 25, 2008, 02:27 AM

    So, how's your music coming along, THEpurplepeanut? I've already discussed some with you about that on another thread.

    It's tough being a teenager? Are you the oldest of the children?

    Merry Christmas to you, too!

    Thanks!

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