[romantic9979kay]

I am a guy and still have no clue about what women want... Anything I should be concerned about when speaking about signs of a relationship going cold... such as signs that maybe she is not on the same page as me?. any flags I should take notice about when she is pushing me away or needing more things than she is willing to give?

[JBeaucaire]

If you've been away for several days and come to visit and the toilet seat is up... that's a real doozie.

8-)

Seriously, nothing beats being alert. Everyone's experience varies, so the only real advice you can rely on is "Don't fool yourself, don't ignore your mates needs, don't beat yourself up when things end".

Most relationships end. They just do, they're supposed. Only the last one is a keeper. The mistake is thinking early on that "this is a keeper" instead of keeping doing the work and being honest about the results.

The last one is only a keeper because try as you may, you can't find the reasons to end it... reasons usually there if you're honest and looking.

Do the work, don't be fatalistic. It's OK to be together for awhile, and then not. It is. People feel like it's the end of the world for more often than is necessary.