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    Dec 22, 2008, 03:31 PM
    i like my x boy friend
    my name is emma, I'm 16 I have a boyfriend called dan, I have been with him for 2 years. I love him a lot but I have a problem, I cont get my x boy friend out of my head, I think about him all day I dream about him ever night. And I don't no why.
    it was 2 years a go. I don't understand why he is in my head all the time, when I have a boy friend I love a lot. I no I'm oly 16 and I don't no nuthink about love. I just don't no what to do. HELP ME!

    emma
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    Dec 23, 2008, 02:18 PM

    He will be on your mind for a while dear, as two years in your young life is a long time to be with someone.

    It will fade as you get busy with other things, and people, but its not love any more, its just you got attached, and use to that ex. Its normal.
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    Dec 23, 2008, 05:08 PM

    Listen, I'm younger than you, probubly not by much, but I am, and honey, right now I'm in a relationship , with the most wonderful girl, but, I still like being single a lot more then having a relationship with someone, ever try being single for a while, I mean, you don't allways have to be in a relation ship, gives you time to yourself, time to do things you want to do
    Who said you allways have to be in a relationship?
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    Dec 23, 2008, 05:50 PM

    It was your first love and they are always special.
    Also when you think back it is easier to remember the good times and not really think of the bad or why you broke up. So basically you are romanticizing what was. Try and keep your mind more in the here and now and the future.
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    Dec 23, 2008, 07:32 PM

    I'm going through the same thing your going through. It's normal. Your first love will never fully diminish from your brain. It's kind of bittersweet.
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    Dec 24, 2008, 09:10 AM

    I'm in that situation... kind of still haven't gotten him out of my mind yet either and it's hard but you'll get through it

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