[hurtforever]

I've never been this heartbroken before. And I really need some advice to get over it. Now I understand my ex and I didn't go out for a long period we went out for about 3 months. Everything was great he had me fall head over heels in love with him. He liked me, he had my friend call me up and tell me that he liked me and told me to call him, I called him and we ended up hanging out the next day now I thought he was cute but after hanging out I soon realized that he wasn't my type at all. But he was so nice and caring. We hung out all week he called me all the time and it was nice. That Friday we went to the pool hall with all of our friends and his friends and my friends liked each other. I was sitting down and he came over to me and kissed me I kissed him back but it was very awkward later on we went to my friends house when they were leaving we ended up making out and he looked me in the eyes and said "You know I really like you" and I said that I liked him too which I did but not a lot. And he said "well that's a good thing" I knew he was going to be asking me out soon and I really wasn't sure what I was going to do he was so nice and so caring and I didn't want to hurt him but he wasn't my type at all and at the same time personality counted more then looks too. Well the next day we went up to one of the most romantic spots around my town , You see all of the city and its beautiful. Well he kept trying to take a picture of me and him kissing on my phone and I somehow kept putting it off and I kind of felt bad but I wasn't sure what I wanted well we got back to my car and he was holding me and he said "I have a question" and at that moment I knew what it was , and I said "yes" and he said "will you go out with me?" well at that moment I had to make my decision he was very nice but he wasn't my type but could I just hurt him like that? Well I decided to take the chance. I said Yes . I remember him telling me that I was stuck with him for the rest of my life and I remember kind of laughing to myself and thinking you right I'm probably going to break up with him in a couple of days or weeks its not going far at all. Well we ended up staying in a hotel room that night with all of our friends. I had to go somewhere and when I came back he was talking to my friends about how much he liked me and well they got on the subject of weddings and he kept talking about weddings and how we were going to have a redneck wedding well I was pretty mean about it and said well I'm getting married on the beach and he started talking about how we could combine both of the weddings and everything he said I was disagreeing too and I was really mean about well when our friends went to the other rooms and it was just me and him things got better we talked. And things got a little heated. Things moved pretty fast in our relationship and I don't regret it . He was so sweet and his mom never saw him like that before she believes he really loved me and I fell in love with him so fast things were great for about 2 1/2 months I know he was faithful because when I was at work he was with my friends . And when I wasn't at work he was with me. I loved sleeping next to him it made me feel so safe. Every weekend, all weekend long we were together. And I loved it . I had so many next experiances with him. Well all of a sudden he started hanging out with one of his friends that he mom can't stand because every time he gets with him he won't talk to her and he messes everything up and does things he shouldn't he's just a bad influence. Well he ended up moving in with him . That's when things went dfown hill from there. He has played me with his friends cousin that's 20 years old a has 2 kids. He went as far as to change his cell phone number and everything. His mom and I are very close and we talk almost everyday well she hasn't heard from him. She has giving me good advice she has told me no matter what people say to me right now I'm going to be hurt its just going to take time. I was just wondering if anyone could give me adivce on getting over heartbreak or even if your could tell me some of your experiances. I have cried everyday since. I'm also afriad that if he comes back to me I may just tell him yes, I would deffinat;ly tell him that he would have to prove to me that I could trust him and he would have to prove that he wants to be with me but still I shouldn't take him back and I'm afriad I may . His mom already told me she knows more then likely he will try to come back to me and she has told me she hopes I do tell him no but if I do say yes to tell him that when he grows up come back and we could talk about it if I'm not taken by then. So please any advice or experiances will help me out a lot thank you

[southerngalps]

The only simple advice I can give is to go out with your friends and meet new people.

Stay close to your friends and family right now. They will help get you through this.

Maybe start exercising, going to the gym. It helps when you feel better about yourself.

[411Help]

Cardio, cardio, and more cardio. Not only is it scientifically proven to improve your mood. It will also get you in good shape :D

[BlackVY]

Cardio, cardio, and more cardio. Not only is it scientifically proven to improve your mood. It will also get you in good shape :D

I have to agree with this... it not only works when you break up, but then you have a fight with your partner too...

When I used to fight with my girl, I'd go to the gym and run for about an hour straight.. like 10Km at least... and man, I felt way better after that... :)

[411Help]

Watch comedians.

Russell Peters
Jerry Seinfield
Chris Tucker
Jamie Foxx
Dane Cook (especially the one about crying)

[talaniman]

Read the stickies at the beginning of this forum, you will learn a lot.