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    Dec 21, 2008, 09:22 AM
    What the "F" ?
    We've had an on again, off again, relationship. Now after showin' up un-invited numerous time, she say's she just want's to be friends.. And I;m taking care of her dog's.

    I've suggested that I keep them and she pay's me per. Month..

    No word from her.


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    Dec 21, 2008, 09:31 AM

    You are a true friend with benefits.

    Why keep the reminder and 'ball and chain' if there isn't going to be any commitment?

    She just wants you to care for the dogs?Cmon,be real,she is just using you for a sitter and what is the trade off,money?
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    Dec 21, 2008, 09:38 AM
    Thanks..

    Sometimes, you ask the? So many times, your judgement get's blurred,

    Happy Holiday's!!
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    Dec 21, 2008, 09:41 AM

    Thank you,happy Holidays back to you.

    Sometimes were in the forest and can't see past the trees.That's what this site is all about,glad to help.

    KBC
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    Dec 21, 2008, 09:46 AM

    If you keep and feed and care for the dogs for a good length of time some Judges will see it as abandonment and you gave the care and expense so grant you the dogs.
    It sounds like she is stringing you along. Possibly she is assuming you assume that there is friendship enough that you do give the dogs back without getting into a dispute.
    I would tell her that "I no longer want a relationship where it is come and go AS YOU please."
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    Dec 21, 2008, 09:47 AM
    Thanks..

    I just bumped into another F'n tree.
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    Dec 21, 2008, 09:48 AM

    Damn those trees anyway,time to leave the forest!:p
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    Dec 21, 2008, 09:49 AM

    Thanks a lot.
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    Dec 21, 2008, 09:49 AM

    Don't decorate any of them with mistletoe!

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