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    Dec 20, 2008, 01:10 PM
    Does my bi roommate want something more?
    Ok so I have a roommate that is bi and just recently discovered my bisexuality over the summer. We will call her "Q". Last year before we became roommates she was dating a guy and before I was even out. I found out this year that her boyfriend would get jealous of me and always thought we were going to hookup. When I kissed my first girl she told me that she always thought she'd be my first kiss. One night about three months ago when we were drunk we ended up making out in her room. Now it seems like whenever we are drunk we always end up in either my room or hers and we fool around. She admitted to liking me one night and I told her I liked her too. Another night after she went out she came down to my room and she asked me if I had ever kissed a girl sober and I said no and then she asked me if I wanted to, so we made out and she slept in my room and she's made out with me once while she was sober. It's pretty much only when we've been drinking, but sometimes I catch her looking at me or I pick up subtle signs that she really does like me. I'm just looking for opinions on what you guys think and if she wants something more or how you think she feels about me.
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    Dec 20, 2008, 02:49 PM

    She probably doesn't want to feel as though she is pushing you into something she is not sure you are ready for.
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    Dec 20, 2008, 03:29 PM

    It sounds like the same subtle hints, as it would be if she was a male roommate.
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    Dec 20, 2008, 04:00 PM

    I think u should ask her out and if it doesn't work after giving it a try just stay friends

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    Dec 20, 2008, 04:02 PM
    I'm sure when she was drunk she was showing her true feelings and she only did it when she was drunk that way if you didn't like her she could just that the only reason she did it was beacause she was drunk

    Nadia
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    Dec 20, 2008, 06:31 PM

    You keep making out sooner, or later the sparks will fly. What would you expect. Don't assume, or guess at it, she is right there for you both to talk about it, so do so.

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