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    mikec88 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 6, 2008, 08:09 PM
    Am I losing Interest in my Girlfriend?
    I been going out with my girl for 3 months now. We spend a lot of time together as we both go to the same school and she stays over my place at least twice a week. THings were great until recently. I began to feel like I was going through the motions with her. I find myself putting a lot of pressure on myself to be into it. For example, she was joking around like she usually does, and I just gave her a fake laugh to brush it off. Im just not as excited about the relationship as I was. I been worried about this change and its been on my mind lately.
    Will things go back to normal? Do we just need some time apart? Or am I losing interest in her?
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    Dec 6, 2008, 08:13 PM

    Yes, I think you are losing interest in her. This has been happening to me recently, I have been looking on the internet for ways to lighten up a relationship, to see if I would be interested like I once was.

    If you really love her, you can try to make the relationship exciting, maybe even not see her a lot so when you do, it will be great.

    But, if the relationship is still dull on your side, then sadly you might have to end it for the better.

    Good luck.
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    Dec 6, 2008, 10:55 PM

    Will things go back to normal? Do we just need some time apart? Or am I losing interest in her?
    It could be all of the above. Not all relationships are forever.
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    Dec 7, 2008, 12:13 AM

    Relationships are full of..

    What ifs and maybes.

    At least in the early stages

    If you don't feel good with her and you have tried really hard.

    Just make sure that your feelings are of your own actions and thoughts

    And not of some other problems going on in your life

    All the best
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    timtim-awesim Posts: 54, Reputation: -2
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    Dec 7, 2008, 12:58 AM

    So what if it is no longer exciting? Can't you just enjoy the companionship?
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    Dec 7, 2008, 01:29 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by ;
    So what if it is no longer exciting? Can't you just enjoy the companionship?
    Timtim

    How old are you?

    Just would like to get a feel of where you are coming from.

    Early teens? Maybe..


    The problem here kid. If you want companionship.. you can run off with you friends and play tag and stuff.

    A relationship which is what our friend is in.

    Is another thing. And while companionship.. is mostly used in a relationship
    Both partners must make one another HAPPY!

    Key word!

    If one of them does not feel HAPPY
    How can companionship work.
    If you are stuck with someone who does not make you happy.
    And is more like a friend.

    Which will stop you from moving on and finding that special someone.


    --Shakes Head--

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