[babebabe]

I am in a big mess I think.I have been in a relationship for almost 5 years now.The guy has been good to me and all.The problem(though not really a problem to most people) is that I am few months older and I ve not been cool with it.Again,we agreed to get married some day but he is not really doing anything about it.I think I nagged a lot about it.I don't really know if we will be getting married bcos I want to or bcos he wants us to.The rship has been good except that we don't really ve fun.As in,I wld ve preferred a more lively rship.This one is kind of too dull and almost no life.I wanted to end the rship in d past but I haven't got the courage to,because the guy in question never wronged me.The only thing he did is that he is young,which is not really his fault and that he is boring.But he really really loves and adores me.
The main prob now is that I met a more mature man who claims he loves me so so much.I ve so much fun just talking with this guy that I always wish am not in a rship.I ve told him many times in d past that am in a rship but he said he will never let me be till I agree to him.
Now am beginning to really love this new guy.He is fun,understands me and looks like everything I want.I don't know if am being silly,or stupid, but I have a hunch he is not just there to have a piece of me.
Now I don't know if I shld do what I ve always wanted to do,break up with my current boyfriend bcos I ll always feel am too old for him or stick with it hoping I will get used to it.WE are engaged anyway to be married.
Am not sure I made a lot of sense because am so confused.
Can anyone say something please

[talaniman]

For one, boring, or not, you have not been honest with your current b/f, and to be honest, your using him until something better comes along. That's not fair to lead him on, thinking your all aboard his train, when your not.

Let him go, to find someone that he deserves to have. Then your free to check out whomever you want.

[babebabe]

Thanks for being so honest with me.