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5374528966 · Dec 4, 2008, 05:06 PM

Okay so to anyone who has read my previous questions... now being with my ex again, not really talking to that other guy... Is it I good idea to buy another place out in the country. Cause we bought our first place together and when I left I left it for him, (and his daughter) but now I really want to move to the country cause I have four horses and two hound dogs... is it to soon to be sure. I have given up any feelings I had for the other guy. I don't think it would ever have really worked out any :( So would I cause more pressure or do you think it would be a good start over?

talaniman · Dec 4, 2008, 05:12 PM

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What does he say about it?

5374528966 · Dec 5, 2008, 12:03 PM

Well he thinks it's a really good idea... he never wanted us to be apart in the first place.. and he is back to telling me that he can't wait to marry me one day :) (he always used to tell me that) him and I both agree that we will have less problems if we can get away from this stupid town. The place we want to move to is over an hour away. I do think that it could be the start of the wonderful life that I have always hoped him and I would have.

talaniman · Dec 5, 2008, 12:31 PM

What about the marriage issue? Just curious, as I doubt he change his mind.

I have seen many a couple lose out when it comes to dividing finances, without the protection of some sort of contract, or agreement, and marriage does that, along with some legal signed agreements.

5374528966 · Dec 8, 2008, 08:20 AM

I'm not really worried about losing anything... I left everything when I left the first time(except for my clothes and piano) But I don't think we will ever come to that. (at least I hope not) I don't see us getting married for a long time anyway... At least not until we have everything paid off, and are full financially set. That will be a while before that happens :D ha ha
Now this hunting friend of mine, he has called me a couple times lately to tell me about this girl he met, and has been going on dates with, he calls I think to get advice on how not to be, but I also believe he wants to make me jealous (lol not working) The reason I think that is cause when we were iffy,, not sure about dating, he would be on the phone with me and say some chick is super hot, and later he would tell me it was to make me jealous... I don't really care, I think I have completely lost any interest in being stuck in the I have been in.

talaniman · Dec 8, 2008, 10:19 AM

I think you really need to be unavailable to him, and get some real friends. Then you can focus on the relationship your in much better.

5374528966 · Dec 8, 2008, 08:22 PM

That's what I was thinking to. Plus I have found that I feel a lot better, relaxed and more calm when I don't have any stress coming from his direction. Thanks a lot for your help, its nice to have someone to talk to who won't judge you... My name is Jesi by the way :)