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Phydeux · Dec 3, 2008, 05:17 PM

I have been seeming someone just cacually every 1.5 to 2 months. The sex is amazing. I'm a single father, divorced for over two years. She is in the process of getting divorced from an physically abuse husband. She has stated that she is not ready for a serious relationship. She seems to say sorry quite a bit and compliment me a lot. The last time we were together I told her how interested I was in her and that I wanted our relationship to go somewhere but only at her pace. She also stated that she was interested in me. When I left her home she was wiping a tear from her eye. This is really complicated for me. And I understand where she is at in her life right now and don't want to put any pressure on her at all. My confusion is that she says things like how she appreciates how understanding I am and wants to do things for me like cook and help with my child custody (she is a paralegal). But she stated a few times that she is not ready for a serious relationship. I feel like part of her want's to be with me and the other part of her is trying so hard to be logical. I don't want to be some rebound guy. I don't know what to do.

COOKIE MONSTER · Dec 3, 2008, 05:33 PM

I think she's scared hun
Her ex would have started all nice and then turned into a monster, so she's scared of getting to close to find out what your really like.
Give her time to get over her divorce and just take things slowly.
Show her that you are there for her no matter what

kitten420 · Dec 3, 2008, 05:49 PM

From what you write she sounds very interested in youbut she is going through a tough time and she just got out of an abusive relationship and she is scared. You say u are willing to wait but you are on here confused. The reasons she says the good things she does say to you is because she is letting you know that when she is interested in getting back into a relationship she is going to want it with you. But for now she needs to work on her inner self.