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Kl92 · Nov 30, 2008, 04:37 PM

Im 16, I like this boy and he likes me, however he's in love with his 3month long girlfriend. He makes me like him even more by being so sweet and lovely to me, however its started to get sexual with him saying he wants to make me orgasm and to be honest yes I would like it but we both want it but we both know its wrong,, I'm so confused...

What should I do and what should we do? :(

southerngalps · Nov 30, 2008, 04:56 PM

Be the mature person. Move on.
You are only 16. You have your whole life ahead of you to find true love.

Concentrate on your priorities.

Best of luck ;)

carmex · Nov 30, 2008, 05:01 PM

If he has been clear and honest that he's in love with his girlfriend, then you need to move on. He's not being fair to you or his "girlfriend" by leading you on or allowing his relationship with you move to that level while he's still "in love" with someone else.

liz28 · Nov 30, 2008, 05:14 PM

Don't entertain his thoughts because you already like him and being that he is involved with someone and if you two hook up it will only leave you heartbroken.

In life you are always going like someone and the person you like might already be taken. When this happens you move on and find someone that you can like who is single. Don't ever allow that person to cheat on his girlfriend with you because if he can cheat on someone he loves that makes him a dog and it could easily be done to you.

It seems like this guy only wants to have sex with you. Stay away from him and don't do anything with him. What do you think would happen if his girlfriend finds out? Sadly, some girls get mad at the other girl instead of the guy, don't get in the middle.

jrsg · Dec 1, 2008, 05:21 PM

So he has a girlfriend who he "loves" and wants to get with you? Am I correct in that?

If I am, he sounds like a jerk. If he wants to cheat on his girlfriend, and plans on it, he isn't honest or fair to either of you.

Liz said it, he just wants sex from you. Move on, and forget him.

Amz13 · Apr 22, 2010, 11:30 AM

The same thing happened to me. This guy got my number from someone but only started texting me after he started going out with his now almost a year long girlfriend. After he told me that he liked me I told him that nothing would happen while he was with his girlfriend and he understood. I still like him and we text every so often but I've started to move on.

Don't be the one that he cheats on his girlfriend with. You'll always be 'that girl' and if his girlfriend finds out and dumps him then he'll probably end up resenting you for it.

Good luck!

shannonedmunds · Feb 15, 2011, 01:24 PM

I was in this situation , he makes you fell so wanted? ;/
And by doing that you fall for him more you just need to tell him straight and move on it is hard but it will be better then he won't be meesing anyone about

emoryy · Mar 9, 2011, 11:58 AM

I'm in your situation also.im 16 years old and I'm close to falling in love with a boy who has a 1 year old child and is screwing around with my best friend.I just found this out by the way.my heart is doing flips like its high off some exotic drug.this crazy ordeal is about finding the right person to love and find out if he honestly truly loves you, I have been screwd over so many times and I have kept doing the sam thing over and over again expecting a different result.thats insanity.I have done so much for this boy and it toatally ridiculous now.I still want to be with him and all,but I have no idea what to do.my best friend told me that he was a **** and I didn't give a crap.now look wheere in stuck at.I wish I would have listend to him because this is the second time he has tried to warn me about my poor judgement of guys.
Good luck to you.