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    jlover7251 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 29, 2008, 09:49 AM
    Can I get an ex boyfriend back when he is already datin another girl?
    My ex boyfriend an I broke up 10 months ago and since then I haven't stop trying to get back with him till 2 months ago. The last words I got from him was I love you but I'm not in love with you and I'm never going to get back with you because things are not going to work out.
    I went to a club 2 days ago and I saw him again after 2 months and he was holding hands with some girl I got mad and I tried fighting her then I fel bad and I apologized that's when the girl told me they been datin for two months, don't know what to do even though he was kissin her all night he still kept on looking at me and he said to me I would never be able to get a guy like him and that all the guys I kissed after him are loosers does that means he is jealous?do you think I have a chance to get him back even though he is already sein someone who probably likes a lot?
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    JohnD212 Posts: 101, Reputation: 8
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    Nov 29, 2008, 10:06 AM

    You have zero chance with him. You resulted to violence against someone he's moving on with. Do you really think this is attractive to him? People don't want drama in their lives and you're insisting on bringing drama to his life. You are most likely the least attractive person to him right now. Probably the only thing you've done in the last 10 months is push him further away and maybe inflate his ego a little with your attention.

    It's time to grow up and stop acting like a school girl. Violence will only get you one thing... time in jail. If you ever hope to be healthy and happy with a good person you have to get control of yourself and yourself esteem. I'm sorry this is harsh but your actions are not adult in nature.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Nov 29, 2008, 10:59 AM

    He is not jealous but was doing a good job making you jealous.

    Take a hint, leave him alone because its obvious he doesn't want you back. He has told you, and shown you, what else can he do, before you get it?

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