[lanloun]

Have been with my fiancé about 2 years ,we are both 30 and I'm finding it hard to go on with him &we did every thing together. I work fairly hard to help him for everything , which allows us to live a nice lifestyle and after one month I talk to him to know the reason break up our relation , he called me my mistakes, I was surprised because I never felt him annoy to me and he didn't tell anything about my mistakes 2 year ago, and wans a space for our relation and he also told me ,didn't want to move on and don't anyone else and he finish to say ne" i love you, you don't understand, i'm want just a space"

I'm just going to give him a space, but I'm feeling so hard and I/m feeling I hate him by force.
His friends surprise for his decision because all know he love me and don't never leave me only .

I'm trying to be free by learn a foreign language, call my old friends . I visited to wedding to his best friend of him . Within the ceremony he send me a message to sit down near to him and I did't answer him all the wedding he seemt jalous or annoy to other person.


What I can to do ? I want him to felt hard as me.

[talaniman]

Talaniman rule #1- When they ask for space, give it to them!

If your life is healthy, and balanced, then do what you enjoy, without him, and let him make a decision without your influence. No crying, begging, or foolish nagging.

When the emotional dust settles, see what you want to do with your own life, and if he doesn't want to share in your happiness, move on.

After 2 years, the communication should be a lot better.

[lanloun]

I'm trying to stay my beautifull smiling and continuing my life without him but always his in my mind, I hate all the men .

[talaniman]

You will feel differently after you have moved beyond the pain, and see reality.

The process of healing takes time, just be patient and keep smiling, and do something for yourself that keeps you smiling.