[Daniel Trinidad]

i know how silly this whole story may seem to some of the older people but i assure you all the emotion is there. ive been in an on and off relationship with this girl since the eigth grade and as of now im midway through my tenth grade. she's fifteen and im sixteen. and we were together the first time for about four months then she left me because she lost interest in me. i had grown love for her so i wad kinda hurt but nothing too bad. the months went by and she got with another guy and seemed to have forgotten all about me. they broke up when school was starting again but in my freshman year, about half way through it i finally had it in me to go back to her while she was single, and she was kinda in a hoeish state and was talking to quite a few guys. she took me back though and we were together for a week then she left me again because she told this other guy she would get with him. i felt ed over and stopped talking to her for about two weeks then i just gave up and became her friend again. this was stil around half way through the school year. and she got with some guy for about three or four months and she left him and instantly came back to me. and i took her back. this was around the end of my freshman year and we stayed together for five months. within those five months i fell in love with her and gave her everything. we became so close and so deeply in love. then around the fifth month she left me again. and within two weeks she was with another guy she's only known for a month or two and they've been together for three weeks up until today. i was crushed by her leaving me and couldnt control myself other than crying to her on the phone countless times asking if we could get back together but within time that stopped. she's cheated on her new boyfriend with me and we kinda set rules saying "only time will tell if we get back together again" so everynow and then i would let out all my emotions to her and she says she's still in love with me and still has feelings for me and that whenever we're at school we give eachother big hugs and she wears my jacket and she holds my arm at times. and someone had told her boyfriend about how me and her act around one another and he told her to stop talking to me. and i didnt think she would listen because of how long and how much we've been through. but she did..and i tried convincing her not to but somehow she still listened. and so all the times me and her were together i would stop talking to her. but now this time she stopped for her and her boyfriends stake. she says whenever i let out my emotions to her that it makes her feel good and comfort. and so she says thats wrong since she has a boyfriend and everything. so my question her is...will she come back to me again? i mean...won't she only miss me without talking to me and make her grow fonder?

[talaniman]

You are so young, guy, and while I feel your pain, this is a time to let this go, as what was once beautiful, and joyful, is now unhealthy, and painful.

Time to move on, and grow, and heal, and learn, so you can see for yourself she doesn't feel as you do, That's why she is with someone else.

As hard as it is, leave her alone, grieve, and move on.