[biggdawg234]

Ok, I'm new to this so please bear with me. I like a couple of girls who seem to flirt and do other things that make it seem that they like me back. I have a great friendship or acquaintanship with all of these girls. I'm not the best looking 15 yr. old, but I'm a good listener and someone who can relate to people. I'm just wondering, would there be anyway of me finding out if they like me without destroying our friendships?

[Forgiveme]

First ask yourself is it worth it to take it to another level? Or is it more beneficial to keep them as friends.

[Forgiveme]

Yes you can find out, just ask them do you see me as the boyfriend type? If they say "your like a brother", back off and move to another subject.

[THEpurplepeanut]

If it seems like they like you and you like them, do a little fishing, you said you were friends with them so just start talking about the subject,but don't make it sound like you want to know because it would be obvious. Try and cox it out of them. Over time you will find out. Just be very subtle, watch how you say things. You will do fine, don't worry! ;)

[wolfgangqpublic]

There is no way to pursue this without possibly destroying the friendship. Speaking from experience here - the possibility of something being more than friendship will be with you much longer than the friendship. Especially if you're talking about "great acquaintances" - these are EXACTLY the girls you should be flirting with and trying to attract. People don't go through life only dating complete strangers. The loss of one of these "friendships" at 15 will be paltry compared to what you stand to gain by experiencing love (and eventually loss). What have you REALLY got to lose, other than your fear?

[ZoeMarie]

On top of what others have said, pick one. Lol. Because going out with both of them might be a little messy.