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    steve100 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 23, 2008, 02:44 PM
    Girlfriend left me out of the blue
    Hi all

    Today my girlfreind has split from me, what it is she says she is all confused and wants the single life we have recently got a house together (rented).
    The problems started when she got some furniture from her ex I didn't want it wanted to get stuff together but I went along with it, also last night she said she was going round her mums but she went drinking I'm rather comfussed I'm thinking she might be seeing someone else but not sure I have tried ringing her and txting her but no reply I feel used to be honest.
    What shall I do I still love her and want her back but I don't want to bagger her with calls and texts

    Thanks
    Steve
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    Nov 23, 2008, 03:18 PM
    It's sad for you but, you already have tried to get in touch with her and she's not responding to you. Not much left to do but give it some time and see if she contacts you or not.
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    Nov 23, 2008, 03:41 PM
    Don't let love blind you to the fact, she is messing with you in a disrespectful manner.

    Is she on drugs? Even that ain't no excuse for bad behavior.
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    Nov 23, 2008, 11:57 PM
    No she isn't on drugs I have tried to get in contact with her there's no reply or she hangs up think I might as well give up on her.
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    Nov 24, 2008, 12:28 AM
    IMO she's being very immature about this. She could at least tell you why she doesn't want to talk to you or what. If she's not willing to talk there is not much to do but just move on. Don't keep contacting her, when she's ready to talk she will talk to you. Best thing to do is just move on till that time.
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    Nov 24, 2008, 01:23 AM

    This is why you don't go in on renting places with people who you even have the slightest hint that they are immature. Guess your footing the bill now to? Who is signed on the lease? I would be more worried about this than the girl.

    The situation with her IS simple she left to do things that are more fun with other people, to have one night stands or what not and avoid the relationship life. Their was obviously something going downhill in your relationship. Take some time and think on what that something might be.
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    Nov 24, 2008, 10:38 AM
    Yep that is what I will do move on there is nothing I can do

    Thank you for all your replys

    Steve
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