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    bonez25 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 22, 2008, 08:02 PM
    Girlfriend is confused and needs space
    Hey everybody my girlfriend and me were going out for 4 weeks and then I have the things she said saved >>>>>

    " ummm honestly like i don't know. no offence or nothing but ur not my typa guy so like i don't know what to relle say widd you. its kinda weirddd. like i don't really feel anything. I like you but its like i LIKE you. that all im feelin like, so im kinda confuseddd. & i don't just wanan be like lets stop without giving it a chance."

    " umm i been thinkin bout what you said last time....the whole tell me what you want ting. & honestly, like i don't know anymore. I don't think that im ready for you, or the type of guy that you are. Its not about you, and not that i don't like you, i just don't want to "string" you along when i know that i won't be able to give you my all y'know? i think i just needa break and just kinda do my thing for a bit and see where im at. Do you understand?"

    " I want it to be like how it was before. its not like were done, its just that i don't think im ready, its not over for us maybe down the road things will change you never know. but thanks alot for being a good boyfriend, you really were sooooo sweet & sometimes i was kinda shocked that you actually like me. & jus so you know you'll always b my "lupe." even though ur wackass is in denial i'll let that slide. but thanks for understanding still. I hope ur not hurt."

    And this week she started talking to me and I ignored her am I doing the right thing ? Can you help me out here, because I really like her and I want her back , but my friends are telling me that she is a waste of tyme.
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    h0llister Posts: 335, Reputation: 15
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    Nov 22, 2008, 09:16 PM

    You are doing the right thing! Leave her alone, she doesn't know what she wants and she's playing with your feelings. I think you can find a really sweet, down to girl earth girl who wouldn't be causing drama. Listen to your friends, they know.
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    Nov 22, 2008, 09:53 PM

    Be glad you got to see this side of her so early. Don't even give her the time of day and do not contact her by any means. She is her own problem and you don't need her to become one of yours.
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    Nov 22, 2008, 10:08 PM

    Yeah, I agree with both of the posts here. Just let her have her space and don't try to contact her.
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    Samgeisinger Posts: 11, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 22, 2008, 10:16 PM

    For get that girl she is stupid and makes no sense and trust me she just wants to play with your head let me guess she dates a lot hunny she is a for get that skank find a better chick who wants to cater to you you digg
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    TrueFaith Posts: 1,202, Reputation: 313
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    Nov 22, 2008, 10:31 PM

    This girl sounds like she has 90% of her brain matter missing

    I mean really.. who are you dating?

    EMO?

    She can not even talk right..

    Leave this girl in the dust

    She is Soo not worth the effort
    Trust me!

    Move on to better things
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Nov 23, 2008, 10:33 AM

    Give her credit for being honest, and you know YOU have to get over it, and will in time. Does that mean be rude, or mad, because of the way she feels?

    I never was, but never let them give me false hope either, and a lot can be said for a guy who handle rejection well.

    That's what this is really about. Her rejecting you, which is nothing to be mad about.

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