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saberlilly · Nov 15, 2008, 06:56 PM

I am 26 years old and 8 moths pregnant. My husband ran out on me one month after we were married for another girl. Almost 9 years younger than himself. He left me and my 3 year old with a years lease on the house and no way to pay bills. He is living with his mother, his gay friend, and his bi girlfriend. His mother is a prostitute **web site edited out ** show you the proof. His girlfriend has threatened me and my unborn child. And john is hanging out with drugies, wich all of them mother included are in to drugs. When john and I were togeather he was not like that at all he was clean, had a job, and was doing well. But since he got with Sheila (btw same first and middle name as me) he has become trash. His bathing habbits are just gross now, he has a bath once a week if that, never shaves or cuts his hair. Wears the same clothing a week at a time. When his girlfriend threatened me and my unborn child john knew about it and did nothing, in fact I asked him if she knew that I was pregnant when she wrote that and he said yes that she knew. What she said was she was in the military and has been trained to kill killers and I had beter watch myself. For one she was only in boot camp for one week before she was dishonrably discarged (pretending to have a heart murmer) she was medicaly examined and no illness found. This girl has also been stalking me to no end. Oh now down to the reason why I am here, I do not want my husband to have rights to the child but I want him to pay child suport what can I do. I do not want my child to be anywhere near him his family or friends because I really think that they would hurt her or his girlfriend molest her.

Fr_Chuck · Nov 15, 2008, 08:17 PM

Sorry, you may get limited visits but most likely he will get at least supervised visits. And his rights have nothing to do with his paying child support they are two separate issues.

If they are stalking you, get a order of protection from the court.

saberlilly · Nov 15, 2008, 08:23 PM

If he has to have visits can I request an officer to be in the room with him?

liz28 · Nov 15, 2008, 08:23 PM

First, if you're being threaten you could contact the cops and not take it lightly and maybe get a restraining order against her because she already threated to harm you and your unborn child.

Secondly, if anything you might be able to get supervised visits but he does have rights to see his child and has a fiancial obligation.

Thirdly, are you still married because if so you should work on getting a divorce asap.