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    xXforgottenXx Posts: 9, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 12, 2008, 04:34 PM
    Should I? I think I can't wait.
    OK so I met this girl and I started to like her and when I felt the need to tell her I did but apparently she does and doesn't like me it's kind of like yes and no at the same time well like almost 2 weeks have past and she didn't decided yet ( that's what I think) but then she got confused and said how could a guy like you like me? Then I said a guy like me what do you mean. And she goes and says. How could a cute guy like you ever like a girl like me wish I'm not cute so this is when come and says that she is beautiful and what I felt for her is real and strong and then she started telling me a thousend times your cute your cute so should I ask her if she likes me??
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    Nov 12, 2008, 07:10 PM
    Do you really need to ask my friend!

    Sounds like she's stunned that you could even look at her as more then a friend, I don't know if I would straight up go up to her and be like, hey, so you like me? ;)

    Find out for yourself spend more time with her, and the ball roll, I hope good things for you and everything works out, best of luck.
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    Nov 12, 2008, 11:47 PM

    I can predict a not-so-bright- future if you decided to pursue this girl because she doesn't seem to have high self-esteem, this may lead to dramas later! So what she said was also a red flag, don't try to ignore this.
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    Nov 13, 2008, 04:17 AM

    She needs to like herself before she can like you.. (omg I sound like such an a*****e! But its true) id say keep it as friends for a while and see how it goes...
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    Nov 13, 2008, 07:09 AM

    She needs reassurance, as she is very insecure, so be nice, and give her compliments that you mean. Go slowly guy, and be friends for a while. Tell her you like her, but don't ask if she likes you.

    This requires a gentle, delicate touch, with a lot of care, so don't be pushy, and insecure yourself. Get to know each other first, before you do anything else. Have fun doing that.
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