[tjnn]

So, Im pregnant with my second baby.. it is over with my kids dad. He wanted me to have this second child and I was happy to have another baby, but then on top of all his abuse, he had cheated on me again and again, and finally I couldn't take it anymore so I ended it, and really haven't heard from him again. He has not even helped with money or nothing with his child. Now I'm on my way with my second child, 5 months pregnant. Just told my mom and she is so mad and doesn't want to talk to me. Need to still tell my dad, but he is probably going to kick me out of the house I am renting from them. My parents helped me with a house for me and my child, so when they find out that I have a second on the way, chances are they will kick me out. They dislike the dad so much. They love my son, but I don't know where this is going to leave us once I tell them. I am so scared. Im 27, you think I wouldn't be scared but I am. My mom thinks that sex shouldn't happen till after marriage so the fact that Im having another kid has left her ferious with me, and now I have to tell my dad which will be even worse then telling my mom. Any tips on how to get through this? I feel so depressed right now, and I hate showing this in front of my little boy right now.

[J_9]

One tip is to tell them that it is over between you and the father of the baby, and keep it that way. Let them know that you need support and they are the only ones you can get it from.

If it is over between you and him, it needs to be OVER.