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brokenhearted1515 · Nov 11, 2008, 09:18 AM

Hey you.
I will make this very quick. A friend of mine needs some advise (apparently mine is not good enough) She was dating this guy and they were really happy together (I barley ever saw her) then slowly things started to go bad. The fought a lot and were at eachothers throats. They mutually desided to go there separate ways and that once they both healed they could remain friends. Turns out that he has a new girlfriend. This was a few months back now. Recently he unblocked her on msn. And of course she starts with they whys and what's (typical... I told her who cares... block him and leave it alone.) She doesn't want to be with him but she does want to remain friends. So she goes against everything I told her and sends him some funny text joke (just the question), expecting him to respond... he doesn't. Its been about a week I think. And he's been online everyday all day... she thinks he taunting her. So her question is why is he doing this? She figured he wanted to remain friends also, so she thought if she opened the door for communication it would be easier for him (just the type of guy he is). So please help her. So she stops harassing me about it. Why did he unblock her then not respond to her text?

kctiger · Nov 11, 2008, 09:22 AM

Tell her to get a life and take a hint. Simple as that. She doesn't need him as a friend, or a lover. He obviously doesn't either. Move on, it ain't that big of a deal!

brokenhearted1515 · Nov 11, 2008, 09:29 AM

You're an idiot... she has a life. She's totally over him, but there friendship means a lot to her. What hint would that be? He obviously wants something if he's unblocking her on msn.

Could we get some real advise from someone please?

kctiger · Nov 11, 2008, 09:30 AM

I am an idiot because I gave you an answer you didn't want to hear? Smooth come back man. What was your answer then?

brokenhearted1515 · Nov 11, 2008, 09:33 AM

You didn't give me an answer at all. Take a hint? What would that be? He unblocked her on msn... so the hint would be to get a life? Wow your amazing.

kctiger · Nov 11, 2008, 09:34 AM

The fact that you disagree with my opinion is just absurd. Don't come on this board if you want everyone to give you an opinion that you want to hear. He is ignoring her, and she is acting like a stalker. If she thinks he is taunting her then why would she want to be his friend anyway? Don't ask for advice if you can't handle the straight and honest opinions that people will give you.

brokenhearted1515 · Nov 11, 2008, 09:38 AM

Can you read? He WAS ignoring her. Now he's not. I didn't know that sending someone a text was being a stalker. She has a life has a new boyfriends who is awsome. My advise to her is to leave him alone. But she wants him in her life. If you were ignoring someone and didn't want to talk to them. Would you unblock them from msn? Your entilted to your own opinion, but that doesn't make it right. Thanks for your unless advise.

kctiger · Nov 11, 2008, 09:41 AM

Here is a bit of "classy" advice: the next time you disagree with someone, don't resort to name calling as it is pretty lame. I can't say why he unblocked her, and for what it is worth, I am trying to protect her feelings. If she keeps trying to contact him and he keeps ignoring her, all it does is send her into more "what ifs" or "why not" than she needs to be in. I didn't realize that by "unblocking" someone from MSN was that big of a deal, so I will just keep my opinions to myself. Glad I got to know you, as you seem like a stand up guy.

brokenhearted1515 · Nov 11, 2008, 09:44 AM

I just call it like I see it. And I am a woman. Just wondering what the difference is between calling someone and idiot or a stalker? Take your own "classy" advice.

kctiger · Nov 11, 2008, 09:46 AM

You call it like you see it? We are typing over a keyboard, you don't see anything but a screen! Her 'actions' and her mode of thinking are 'stalkerish'! If you are constantly worried about "why" or "what" then it needs to change. Am I talking to a 15 year old? And, just in case you can't read, he is STILL IGNORING her... the fact that he unblocked her is irrelevant.

brokenhearted1515 · Nov 11, 2008, 09:46 AM

When someone attacks my friends without even knowing her it upsets me, sorry. ANyone else want to give it a shot?

brokenhearted1515 · Nov 11, 2008, 09:49 AM

I call it like I read it. Is that better for you? Her actions? By sending him a friendly text? She's a stalker? By wondering why he unblocked her, she's a stalker. I see. Your right. Thanks so much for your wisdom. Highly appreicated.

kctiger · Nov 11, 2008, 09:49 AM

Let me try it again, without offending you:

Tell her to leave him alone. She has done her part, now the ball is in his court. If he wants to talk, he will when he is ready.

That better for you?

brokenhearted1515 · Nov 11, 2008, 09:52 AM

Those where my exact words. Much much better. Watch what you say to some people. Might mean nothing to you, but it could mean the world to them. I am one for honest and upfront opinions. But name calling and degrading someone you don't know is not what this site is all about. I appreaciate your new advice and will be sure to relay this information to her. Thanks.

kctiger · Nov 11, 2008, 09:53 AM

I did not mean to degrade her. I am more for protecting her at any rate. I am sorry to come off as harsh, as it was not my intention. I wish you luck.