[precious12992]

So.. I broke up with my boyfriend about 3 weeks now and Tuesday the 11th wouldve been our 3 months anniversary. You 3 months seems short but we did love each other. He told me that I was the first girl he said I love you too. It was so sweet he even brought me flowers to school with a note saying "Here are some flowers from me to you. i hope you are happy with them love andrew" that night he told me he didn't really know what to put so he asked my cousin adam what to put.. adam was the one that got me and him together in the first place. But now I'm just trying to get andrew back I try everything and I keep saying sorry to him and now I don't know what I should do. I can't even get over. I tried hanging with guys but I felt like I was still dating andrew.

Please help what do I do

[jrsg]

3 months isn't short... I've always felt that it is the feelings felt in the relationship that determines the value of a relationship, and not the length of it.

But, one thing I noticed is that you broke up with him. Is that right? You were the one who decided that the relationship should end? Or was it him?

[precious12992]

Well I did break up with him.. but my cousin said there was another girl and that I had to get out before I would get hurt... so I did. And now because I did that andrew isn't the same he doesn't talk to me as much. And he told me that the girl was just a friend. And she met him.

So I keep saying sorry and I tell him I want him back in my life he said he has to think about it. But I give him time and some days its like normal we talk and other days we don't even talk.

So I really don't know what to do. Because I really do love him

[jrsg]

Well, if he won't take you back, you have to move on.

Take this as a learning oppurtunity. You should have talked to Andrew about this girl before you broke up with him.

Sorry, but being honest here, I don't have a lot of sympathy for you... It was you who broke up with him. If he said to give him time, then give him time. Don't even bring it up anymore. You'll have to try your best to move on, or try to get over it.

Next time you are in a relationship, give the guy a chance to explain a situation before you just break up with him.

Hopefully he will see that you just made a mistake, and he will take you back. But, if he doesn't, leave him alone and move on.

Good luck

[precious12992]

Thanks