[veerapan]

Hey
This is the first time I’m using this site. I just started going to university where I met this girl. It’s only been 2 months and we’ve become really good friends. Although lately, I’ve really started to miss her a lot. Right when I get home, I go online and chat with her and we just have the best time around each other whether it’s in university, or chatting over msn. And the weird thing is, she misses me a lot too. Like we have this amazing connection built up around each other, and it’s only been 2 months. We understand each other so well; we’ve never felt like this about anyone before. I don’t know if we should go out or not, I don’t know if I love this girl or not, and this is why I’m asking here. I want to be sure that these feelings that I have of her is love and whether she feels the same way about me. At the same time, I don’t want to ruin our friendship. What should I do?

[kctiger]

So go out with her... it won't hurt to try it. You DO NOT have to love someone to date them. Most people who date others aren't in love with them. The whole point of dating is to feel each other out, and let things take over from there. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. You have nothing to lose by asking her out to dinner... or whatever you want to do. Just do it! It will be fine

[TrueFaith]

Love comes much later

It all starts with LIKE

So go for it

And good luck!
Sounds like you have a nice base

[talaniman]

You will never know a thing unless you ask her out. DO IT!!