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    Brandontheman Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 2, 2008, 02:30 PM
    I am shy
    I am 13 years old, I have a good bit of girls who think I am attractive etc, I'm not ugly and I now it, but I am shy around girls. Any Tips?
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    Nov 2, 2008, 02:48 PM

    Hi, Brandontheman!

    Like you, I used to be very shy around girls. One thing that helped was just spending more time with them and trying to do that. I know that being shy, it's very easy to avoid situations where the person who is shy is a little uncomfortable because they're shy.

    It takes practice to get over being shy. Eventually, you do get over it. But, you have to give yourself time and put yourself into the situations where you can practice getting over being shy.

    Thanks!
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    SimpleguyJoe Posts: 302, Reputation: 68
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    Nov 2, 2008, 07:48 PM

    Exactly as clough said. Just put yourself purposely into situations where you have to be 1 on 1 with a girl. In groups you can just not talk and then become the odd man out so this won't work as well. But the more you try the easier it will become. Everything just takes time.

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