[numberonemommy]

Okay I know I've been asking a lot of questions today, partially because it's been very slow at work and got me into thinking about all these things...

SO now this one is about my "son" again. We've been told by the lawyer we've talked to that we need to documents everything we do with him and every time we have him we need to document all this... so for awhile I'd been writing down everything, when we had him then I had to start writing WHAT we did with him...

I've gotten a little behind on it, but I know with all the picture I take I can go back and I'll know what we did when we did it etc. However, it's putting a lot of pressure on me to do this, as no one else has helped, I'mt he one who's been placed in charge of documenting all this.

Now I'm waiting on my husband to file an emergency court hearing for his son because of an incident that happened when our boy was with his mother, but he's taking his sweet time with it, keeps saying he'll do it in his own time, but if he keeps waiting its going to be too late and I'm pretty sure the courts are going to look at it and the time he waited to file and say that it obviously wasn't that much of an emergency and throw the case out the window.

I feel like all my work is for nothing and that why should I have to be the one doing all the documenting and take the time I have off from spenidng that time with my own child and our son when we have him when my husband won't even go and do what needs to be done asap?
I've decided to give the responsibility to him and that if he feels it would be too much of a stress issue on him, he can give it to his mom to take care of (since they live right down the street and are always in the business anyway). Is this wrong of me?

[isabelle]

I haven?t read everything you have written, so you may want to take my advice with a grain of salt, as I may not have the whole picture here.
I think that your husband should be doing all the legwork. In the end this is his child.
If he is in no hurry there is really nothing you can do about it. Maybe by helping so much you are enableing him?
Just a thought.