[tamegirl]

I am very concerned, for a long while now my husband either can not sustain his erection or loses it during sex, sometimes after he has entered and he carries on and fakes an orgasm. But I can feel that he is soft. He also get a lot of rashes or infections that often cut his penis even though I don't have any infections that could cause that by passing it on. I do not say anything because I do not want to hurt him but it is starting to hurt me because I am feeling like there is something wrong with me, Most of the time he just has sex for the sake of having it and gets done as quick as possible without a concern for my satisfaction. He just gets straight to the point, no foreplay or anything, I am 28 still have an excellent figure but is there something that could be wrong, could he be cheating or just not interested anymore. Please help anyone.

[450donn]

He get rashes? Whoa there girl. Please go get tested for STD's as soon as possible. As for your husband losing interest, there are so many possible causes it is impossible to diagnose here. Maybe he had an affair, has contracted an STD and is afraid to tell you. Maybe he has a medical condition that is causing the problem and is afraid to tell you? Maybe he has emotional problems and is afraid to tell you? Maybe there is too much stress in his life and he does not want to share it with you? See, literally dozens of possible causes. Do not take any of them and run with it. Maybe it is time for an honest sit down conversation with him about what is going on in his life that is hurting your sex life in in order.

[talaniman]

See a doctor first, both of you, and go from there.

[tamegirl]

Thank you I will do that