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sunshine8424 · Oct 28, 2008, 07:40 PM

Thank you very much

SimpleguyJoe · Oct 28, 2008, 08:41 PM

Do you really think that he is worth staying with when you think how difficult it is to even see him? You guys are long distance and have only seen each other one or two times yet you say that your in love? Get a grip on your emotions you might like this guy and your infatuated with him but when you think about it you know that to right?

If you guys can't even get through one drunken argument where some bad things were said what kind of chance do you think you guys will have with REAL relationship problems?

I don't think somebody would use you for JUST a phone and the monthly bill. But I think that paying for something like that for someone you don't know that well outside of phone calls and text messages is kind of foolish, but just my two cents. Even if he is staying around just for that, does that mean that it's OK for you to LET him take advantage of you?

If I were you I would rethink this entire situation look at the facts and make a game plan from there.

sunshine8424 · Oct 28, 2008, 09:03 PM

You know what now I'm more confuse because honestly I know your right to say your in love with someone is a very strong thing.But I guess it's that he made me feel real happy.

SimpleguyJoe · Oct 28, 2008, 09:06 PM

And that's an OK feeling, maybe you guys are just better off as friends for now? LD (even a few hours away) seldom work out for the better. But YOU need to think it over and come up with an answer yourself.

sunshine8424 · Oct 28, 2008, 09:13 PM

But the thing is that I'm so scare to loose him as a boyfriend. I wouldn't want to b his friend and he knows that I've told him before I don't believe in being friends after you have kiss someone.. Thank you very much!

SimpleguyJoe · Oct 29, 2008, 12:01 AM

Well let me ask some questions. How often do you see him? How old are both of you? How does he feel? Why are you guys having such a big problem from just some misplaced words?

sunshine8424 · Oct 29, 2008, 03:05 PM

To be honest is a long story. He's 30 and I'm 29.Like I told you we've only seen each other 2 times.

liz28 · Oct 29, 2008, 04:21 PM

I want to know why do you have this need to want him in your life. What is he offering you? I think buying someone a cellphone and paying the monthlty bill, even before you met him, wasn't a good move.

You two don't even have a foundation. Don't want someone in your life because you want someone in your life. Take time and get to know that person your getting involve with and part of getting to someone is spending time with that person.

I think emotions was high before you two met in person and those emotions got confuse with love. Don't want someone in your life to fill a void or all because you want someone. In a way I think your both are using each other and he just got a phone out of it. Be careful of the guys you meet and don't fall too fast for them.