[Nicote22]

I try so hard to be a perfect boyfriend but it seems nothing works! She says she wants me but she doesn't show it in her actions... whats wrong wit girls! :confused:

[kctiger]

Perhaps you should stop trying so hard. You should not have to try to just be yourself. Just be you. If she cannot appreciate that then you two are not meant for each other at the moment. How long have you been together? How old are you?

[chuff]

You are doing it backwards. You should be trying 40 to 50 percent of the time. When you give more then that, she has no reason to pull her half of the relationship. You can't try to be the perfect boyfriend... you just be you, and she has to pull her half.

[EN Ken]

Then it is likely because your idea of what a "perfect boyfriend" is very different than what she needs.

The short answer to this is if you want her to love you the way she did before then examine how your behaviour has changed between when you guys started dating and now. What things have you stopped doing and what things have you started doing? If you behave as you did when you first started dating her then things will most probably go back to the way they were.

[talaniman]

Define perfect. Does she agree? How old are you, and how long has this relationship been going on?