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    michelob91 Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 23, 2008, 04:56 PM
    I'm confused
    What should I do if my girlfriend is Bi and I told her I didn't like the idea of her touching another person even if it is another woman, an she got upset because I don't like the idea. All she keeps saying is I don't understand because I'm not a girl... I love her an think if she wanted to have this relationship wouldn't she want to chose this an have our relation-ship grow. Instead of wanting to say we are going out and are together and wanting to have this other girl to play around with?? I am so confused...
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    Oct 23, 2008, 04:59 PM

    Ask her if it would be okay if you touched another girl while you and her are dating?

    Being bi is fine, but cheating isn't. If she's with you then she should be faithful to you, if she wants to be with a girl then she should break up with you and then she can do what she wants, when she wants, with whoever she wants.

    Either you are in a relationship or she just wants to have some fun.
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    Oct 23, 2008, 05:04 PM
    I asked her that and she said she would be pissed if I did that. Then I asked her what if I was bi an was doig something like that an she told me she wouldn't be with me then. :confused::confused:
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    Oct 23, 2008, 05:05 PM

    You sound really nice and deserve someone who loves you, sounds like she is not ready for commitment, she just wants to have her cake and eat it too. It would be considered cheating, so you have a right to be concerned. Tell her how you feel. Just because it's okay for her, doesn't mean it is right. Altenweg was right on.
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    Oct 23, 2008, 05:12 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by michelob91 View Post
    I asked her that and she said she would be pissed if i did that. then i asked her wat if i was bi an was doig something like that an she told me she wouldnt be with me then. :confused::confused:

    Then why should you be okay with it?

    She doesn't seem to understand what being in a committed relationship entails. At this point I think you're better off as friends, she wants to play around, doesn't seem like she's ready to be in a relationship.

    Good luck.
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    Oct 25, 2008, 11:50 AM
    Aw man, kick her want to cheat butt to the curb. She is making excuses, to have it her way, and expects you to go for it. She wants the best of both worlds. Let her have it, with someone else, because she will do her thing any way.

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