[LouellaWalters26]

Hello. I just have a question about a man. I am married & My husband, my best friend, her husband & I hang out sometimes. This may seem silly, but, I was just wandering if he "likes me?" When we are all together he is always teasing me & making wisecracks, jokingly & even throws in sexual comments once in a while. I also catch him looking at me alot. Once, he even said "Hey, me & you should go out for a beer & leave them with the kids." I seen him, my friend & their kids at the local video store the other night & we talked for a little while in the store. Then, said our goodbyes & I was the first to leave & he grabbed the kids & followed me to the parking lot while his wife checked out the movies. So, we all ended up talking for a while again. Then, he said, "Look, she's hunting for a new boyfriend...thats why she's all gussied up." There are just so many things that happen like that. Sorry, this is so long, but, I was just wandering if he kinda likes me or is he just being friendly? Thanks. :confused:

[valinors_sorrow]

I think he likes you all right. The bigger question is what does that mean to you? You are married, he is married... forgive me for being so forward here but this could be a hurtful thing to someone if it gets over a line somewhere. Are you thinking about that too?

Just a thought.

It is good that you posted and I hope this was helpful.

[educatedhorse_2005]

Maybe he and his wife are swingers.
This one of the many questions you need to find answers to.
If you are not you need to stop this now before it goes to far.

[Krs]

The important question I think is :-
Do you WANT him to like you?

[fredg]

Hi,
I agree with your other answers.
You said his wife was "hunting for another boyfriend", and that he "is coming on to you".
They are possibly "swingers", wife swapping, etc.
His talking with you and making references to sex, even jokingly, from a married man, is not normal, unless he has something in mind with you!
You and your husband have two options:
1. Stop seeing this couple
2. Keep seeing them, and eventually you will have to make a decision with him; about seeing him Alone!
I do wish you the best, and hope all goes well.

[talaniman]

He is checking you out to see if you're a loose floozy he can have fun with.Duuuhhhhhhh! Maintain your dignity as a married woman and put him in his place! Ask your husband what he thinks because I doubt he comes on to you when he's around! And what do you care if he likes you or not? He sure doesn't respect you,your husband ,or your marriage that for sure!! :cool:

[educatedhorse_2005]

Shut off all communications with him.
Tell him to hit the road.