[marriaget]

I went out with this guy in March, and I broke up with him in June.
We always fought, and he's like every other stupid guy out there.
I didn't like pretty much anything about him.
It's like... when I have him I don't want him, and when I don't have him I feel dead.
On aim, I block, and unblock him over and over again.
I hold myself from I-ming him, and he's liking other girls, and I'm guessing having a good life without me.
He was completely heartbroken when I dumped him, and was begging for me back, and I just didn't want him... and now
I can't get him out of my head. I think of him constantly and the old times.

Ｉ ｊｕｓｔ ｗａｎｔ ｔｏ ｓｔｏｐ ｔｈｉｎｋｉｎｇ ａｎｄ ”ｌｉｋｉｎｇ” ｈｉｍ！ ＞：｜

[JBeaucaire]

You can't stop thinking about someone by trying to not think of them. Just saying "don't think about x_____x" and you're thinking about it because your trying to not think about it...

Worse, when you try to make decisions when you're in this state, you pretty much screw yourself royally.

So, stop trying to not think about him. Think about him if he comes up. Just don't try to draw any conclusions, don't make any choices, just go about your day and try to find some constructive BUSY activities.

The only way to drown out an obnoxious noise you can't escape is with a bigger noise. So make some noise. Busy busy busy.

[talaniman]

It takes time, and staying busy with things, and people, you enjoy helps.

[TrueFaith]

Thanks for every stupid guy out that remark ;)

Real nice

What you need to do is to keep yourself busy, I'm like you in that way
When I have something I don't want it
And when I don't have something I want it.

Its very annoying. Best way to deal with it, is ti keep your mind active and use the drive in you, to get something really good out of life

You can't control who or what you think about.
But control your actions

Best of luck

[marriaget]

Thanks guys

[NallaNeedsYou]

[QUOTE=marriaget;1328669]
I didn't like pretty much anything about him.

Don't you think that was for a reason? He is interested in other girls and you fought lots are 2 clear signes that this guy isn't worth worrying about. The faster you drive him out opf your head the better. It seems to me that he was another guy just trying to get all the attention and you don't need to think about it any more. If he isn't seriouse don't take him serously. About the feeling dead part, talk to people! They will show you how to get in the right head space to stop worrying about a pointless thing. Good luck! Keep busy!

[marriaget]

True true. He's a head -_- gracias haha