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    khanbaba Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 16, 2008, 09:57 AM
    I am too sensitive and expect too much
    I am too sensitive.. if I do something for my lover.. I expect the same level of love from her... its not with my lover only.. its with other people as well.. I know that there is smethng wrong with me.. but can't able to help.. if somebody jokes with me (I do understand that it's a joke) but my silly brain/heart gets sad. Need help otherwise ill ruin my and my fiancee's life..
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    Oct 16, 2008, 10:35 AM

    You posted this about a month ago and got excellent, thoughtful advice. These posts should be combined. Repeated postings don't necessarily get different or better answers.
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    Oct 16, 2008, 10:58 AM

    I'm not sure I can offer good advice here but maybe try watching how your partner reacts when you do something nice for her and take enjoyment/ pleasure in that instead of expecting something in return. Ie: relationships are not necessarily about you do something for me and I will do something for you right? There is definitely a lot of pleasure to be had by helping other people and making them happy.

    Maybe try to chill out a bit generally and take jokes as jokes. I know that's hard sometimes though.
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