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    curious g Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 14, 2008, 11:03 AM
    On My Own again,in dire need of guidance
    Hi I been dating the same girl for 4 years, and I got over it (was very hard) but now I want to move on. I feel like I forgot everything about girls, and I'm kind of shy, for instance, my asked me out because she mistaked my shyness for being cocky and not having much interest in her. Now, I need help, I don't know the game anymore, as much as I would love another relationship, even a 1 nighter lol, I don't know how to make it to those points. THe most I can seem to do is make nice acquaintances with girls and get there numbers, the pick up when I call but don't seem to have much interest in calling me back unless I call again weeks later. That shows lack of interewst, can somebody please give me advice that furthers my dating chances, I feel like I'm missing out on being young.
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    Oct 14, 2008, 12:24 PM

    So, describe your activities in a typical week. All of them.
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    Oct 14, 2008, 01:13 PM

    "The game" has not changed much in 4 years ;)

    As cliché as it sounds, the key really is to be yourself. Whatever you like to do in life, you can find a woman there who likes the same. Like to party? Go to a club or bar. Like to read? Look for women at bookstores or coffee shops.

    Be confident in whatever you do. Dress nice, speak politely but firmly (not to appear too shy) and just start with a simple 'hello'. If you get a number, call later the next day.

    Remember, everyone strikes out so don't be down on yourself if it happens to you.

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