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ashleyp · Oct 13, 2008, 09:15 PM

My boyfriend and I of 4 years split up for about 3 months. In the mean time he had sex with somebody and now she is saying she might be pregnant. If she is what do I do? :(

vapo · Oct 13, 2008, 11:19 PM

There isn't much you can do.. This seems like a situation where its between your boyfriend and her to figure things out. I'm pretty sure you're boyfriend isn't too proud of this, but seeing how this happened when you two were apart there's no reason to get angry at him.

JBeaucaire · Oct 14, 2008, 12:21 AM

You are just dating. This stuff is relevant. You get to choose the hell you live in, and most people do.

You took a "break" for a reason. The reason was significant enough for him to stray sexually, too. That isn't clear enough for you? Do you really HAVE to pursue this?

No. But, as I said, most people choose the hell they live in. As for you, the question isn't for us, it's for you.

What kind if hell are you interested in living in? If the hell of your choice is a having/staying with a boyfriend you know isn't 100% into you, has unprotected sex with others and possibly a baby and a baby momma now to deal with... if that's your hell, bingo! You've scored.

If your hell is a little (or a lot) different than that, then YOU can choose to skip this particular hell.

The question is for you, not us.

talaniman · Oct 14, 2008, 06:42 AM

You let him go take care of his obligations, and decide if your going to be a part of it.

Romefalls19 · Oct 14, 2008, 06:50 AM

Tal is right once again, eventually I will have spread enough rep to give him some more

liz28 · Oct 14, 2008, 08:01 AM

First, her your boyfriend needs to make sure that she is pregnant since she might be. She can take a home pregnancy test but they both should go to a clinic.

Secondly, if she is pregnant, and the baby turns out to his, you even accept his child or not. Don't be one of those females that cause problems with him forming a relationship with the child because of the child mother. He is obligated to that child and it would be good if he stands up and do his part, if he is the father.

Who knows the mother of the child might cause drama or not, but it can happen.

I believe your "what to do" question might mean if she should stay or not. Right now the girl don't even know if she is pregnant so don't make any decision yet. After the pregnancy is confirm then you can decide whether to stay or not and think if you can truly handle the situation because if he's the father, he have to deal with this other women at least for 18 years and pay child support too.