[Bosslady520]

I am 39 years old and my husband and I are trying to conceive our 3rd child which will be our last. I was on the pill for 8 years and stopped taking them 5 months ago. My LMP started with spotting on 8th & 9th of Sept and went full blown on the 10th to the 14th. I ovulated on the 19th through the 24th which would have been my highest peak. My husband let go inside on the 22nd. I have been having headaches, backpains, mood swings sometimes constant urine and slight cramping in my lower abdomen for the past 8 days. I have taken a pregnancy test and it was negative. On October 11th after intercourse that morning I started light spotting all day now today it seems like a period. I have mild cramps in my lower abdomen. I normally have a 28 day cycle and was regular while on the pill with my menstrual around the 17th of the month. It changed in Sept and Now October. I am not really sure what is going on this has never happened before. I feel as if my clothes are getting tighter but am unsure of if I am pregnant or not. I have read about implantation bleeding and thought that was what I was experiencing but now I am see my menstrual I believe. The color is darker than usual but it seems like it is getting heavier and I know that implantation bleed is light. I did not experience this with my other two children of which I had in my earlier 20s and 30s.. Please help me figure this out.

[trying4babykirk]

It sounds like AF has come! Since you were stressed and anticipating AF, it may have just came a little late, which is normal. Remember it can take up to 12 months of trying for a healthy couple to conceive. Take another HPT for your peace of mind if you neeed to. Good Luck!