[mirchygoal]

I am going to marry soon and my vagina and its surrounding areas are black,but my body is whitesh brown.on my wedding night will he irritates by seeing it.iam so sad of thinking it

[nicola89]

If he is going to marry you then he should love you for who you are and not for what you look like on the outside. It what's on the inside matters

[Clough]

Hi, mirchygoal!

My thoughts are, that if he already loves you enough to marry you, then what does it matter about the color of a part of your body?

Is there something physically wrong or that might be related to a disease of some sort, please? If so, that might be an issue, and you would need to elaborate upon that here so that people can help you the best!

He loves you for who are and what you are, things seen and things unseen!

People basically are "all the colors of the rainbow". People are beautiful no matter what the color of anything physical!

Perhaps there might be something about himself that he is also wondering about that he is thinking might be a concern for you?

Have you thought about that?

Everyone is self-conscious when encountering situations where others will see parts of their bodies that aren't normally seen by others.

No one is perfect, but even within those imperfections, all are beautiful! What is in a persons' heart and soul is really the thing that matters!

I really wouldn't be concerned so much, if I were you. True love goes beyond that which is physical in nature, and the beauty of it is in the discovery of the colors of the rainbow that is within each person that is revealed in so many different ways.

[pheebs]

Now, of course, don't worry about it, because he loves you and is going to marry you. If anything, the color of your skin (or a part your skin.. ) shouldn't matter.

As far as medically speaking, I don't know why but everyone's sexual organs are darker (to some degree). It's something to do with the fact that they're sexual organs (nipples, vagina/penis area/anus). There is nothing wrong with it, but if you feel that something is wrong, then go see your gyno, more so if this is your first time having sex so you can be prepared with the help of a medical professional.

Congrats and good luck!

[mirchygoal]

I don't have any experience in sex, so I am afraid of it also.