[kristina1205]

Well I JUST met this guy at a football game. My friend didn't want him talking to me because she didn't want me getting hurt but after a while he promised her he'd change and he wanted to talk to me. So I gave him my number and we talked nonstop everyday. So then he came to my town and we hungout and he had his arm around me or held my hand and everything was perfect and sweet. Then he came over today and everything was good again. Thenn when he left he texted me saying something like " i really like you alot but i thinkwe should be friends so i could get to know u then mayb ill ask u out again" and I don't get it. If he likes me so much why can't we stay dating and learn about each other? He keeps texting me saying I like you and I love you don't stop liking me bla bla bla and he wants me to go to his game and brought me his jersey before. I said what's the point but he really wanted me to go... everyone says he's playing me bu just wanting sumone but not really.. idk I've been way to nice to him I don't know what to do... I really like him. I don't know if I should keep talking to him or not. I mean were going to homecoming together still but I'm not sure if that's the rite thing to do

[jaime90]

Your guy has good judgment as far as I can tell! You just met him. Don't build your relationship on mushy dating crap if you want it to last. Build it on friendship, so when the relationship mush and drama comes, everything won't come falling down. And it's a little bit soon for you guys to be telling each other "I love you" and getting physical. Do what he says and don't stop liking him just because he doesn't want a relationship right away. Don't pressure, don't rush, take it slow, work on it, give it time. If you keep building up your friendship, you'll be pleasently surprised the day he asks you on a date, and you will both have an awesome deal to build your love relationship on.

[talaniman]

Date, and have fun getting to know each other, and see where it goes. Just don't get carried away.

[Homegirl 50]

You know you can take your time and get to know a person. You can be friends with a young man and have fun. It's not that serious.
Take the time to get to know him. Don't take this thing so seriously.