[JungleDoll]

The very first time the guy had touched me was honestly accidentle with both of his hands on my breasts and I was too embaressed to say anything for it was during class so I hoped he didn't notice but apparently he did. Now when ever I see him he tries to do it again by making it look like an accident. Example: Ill be sitting down on the floor and he'll offer to pull me up (He has huge hands) and if I do he exaggerates the pull, pulling me towards him and touching me. Or being rowdy and such. He does like me but I don't like him, and he knows I don't like him but still he contuines to do it, he does it in public places so it seems like a accident, but I don't know what to do, saying somehting is too embarssing. He has huggge hands that cover like my face and he just does that to me but now he's starting to do it with my best friend and me, so far its only been the breasts and but I don't want anything else to happen, what should I do? :confused:

(PS. Hes the same age as me but just way taller)

[ZackW]

Punch him in the nose and let it be known you don't take crap like that from people. You have hoards of people on your side who hate this kind of thing, if you told some older people about this, half of them would probably want to go kick the snot out of him. He needs to know it's not OK, and the behavior needs to stop.
If you keep letting him do it, he'll keep thinking it's OK and will do it more. And if you make a public scene about it, it's not you who will be embarrassed, but him. I don't know how old you are, but if you don't want it, then put a stop to it and stand up for yourself.

He isn't committing a crime and he won't go to jail, so you need to stand up for yourself. You can do it!

[JBeaucaire]

I know this is embarrassing, but this is important. He's learned a new behavior with you that can make him into a sexual predator. He needs to unlearn it NOW before he fully develops the habit.

Do you see this? You need to do something now, not just to protect yourself, but the other girls he will go on to molest if he isn't stopped now. Your friend is already starting to get it, see?

Punching him in the nose would work, but I know that's pretty hard to bring yourself to do. He MUST, MUST, MUST feel embarrassment about what he's done or he'll quickly return to trying this new hobby on another girl. You have to embarrass him.

The simplest would be to let him help you up in a public place, and the exact moment he pulls his "trick", you state in a loud voice intended for everyone around you to hear: "Thank you for helping me up, please keep your hands off of my breasts." Then walk away so he has no chance to deny it.

When he's around you, start to talk to him in that same loud voice, it will remind him you will draw attention to him if he does that again.

When he does it, include his name next time, "JOHNNY, PLEASE keep your hands off of my breasts!" and walk away.

If he manages to molest you again in private, walk away, but stay nearby. As soon as he is back in a public place, including adults nearby, tap him on the shoulder and literally shout in a polite voice, "JOHNNY, WOULD YOU PLEASE STOP TOUCHING MY BREASTS IN THE HALLWAY? THANK YOU."... and walk away.

[GothGirl1771]

Tell him to get the heck off you. It could ge a lot worse if you don't say soemthing! Next time he does it, yell loudly his name and offense... this will make him enbarrased. Tell someone, if he's being a freak, let people know...

[smearcase]

If your parents agree, write the principal a note and tell him you are being sexually harassed. Watch how fast things start to happen. Make sure it is in writing with the date noted. This is a lot more serious than any of us might realize. He is probably making bets with his friends about what he can come up with next.

[411Help]

Jab him in the throat. Then, scream on the top of your lungs. That'll make sure he never does it again.

[ISneezeFunny]

You could just make a huge fuss about it next time he tries to touch you. And I mean, make it a HUGE scene... call him a perv, get angry, get loud.

[lunapotter]

1:talk to your parents or teachers. No one has the right to touch you that way.or take self defence classes and drop him next time you see him. Your not his little toy,don't let him do that to you.

[Worried Auntie]

Ok. So much emphasis is put on everyone being a perv. It is more likely that he's a boy and boys are idiots. Probably his first time touching one.
At any rate you have NOT told him that you did not like it. He may feel that because you didn't comment on it that it wasn't a big deal. If it happens again TELL him to stop. That you don't like it and if he does it again you are going to your parents, principle or responsible adult. He will most likely quit and if not then make SURE that you tell someone.
Nobody misunderstand this I am not saying that I condone his behavior but I believe that everyone is worried about everybody becoming a perv this is not always the case maybe he just hasn't been taught the proper ways to treat a woman.
Anyway I hope that everything works out for you for the best.

[Fr_Chuck]

What I don't see is where you have told him NO, NO and NO.

If you have never told him no or not to, he most likely thinks you like it and want him to do it.

Next why are you letting him pull you up and do this and do that, after the second time, you should be expecting him to??

So you tell him that he is not to do it again, then if he does, you report him to scholl authorities

[JungleDoll]

Hello everyone! Im sooo sorry for not responding, Ive been real busy with school and all, I wanted to let you now you've helped very much! Gave me a few laughs too, lol JOHHNY PLEASE Don't TOUCH ME, anyway before I could do anything he apparently switched schools, so I am saved from seeing him again luckliy, again Im so sorry but thank you all!

[pasiria]

Yeah, I agree, why are you letting him pull you up. When I was in 6th grade this very cute boy whom I liked touched me inappropriate, which at the time I thought it was, on my waist. I still think it is innapropiate and it actually is. Nobody should touch you, you can file a police report for assault, ask an authority and you'll see. Anyway, I automatically responded to the boy touching me by slaping his face so hard. He was so embarrassed and he never ever tried it again. I'm not suggesting violence, even though it sounds like it. That was my immediate reaction. You need to stand up to yourself and defend yourself by using words and acting upon it. Would you like it if that boy was doing that to the person you love the most in your life? Who is this person? Think... What would you do if he did the same thing... think... Now, do the same you would do for that person, but do it for YOU!

[pasiria]

We were posting at the same time, different time frame... but, anyway, you know what to do next time. Next time, stay away from opportunist or do not welcome any behaviors.