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falling23 · Sep 15, 2008, 12:28 PM

Hello! To make the story short, I was dating this guy for about 3 months and we had sex... last week we had sex but for some reason he seemed upset.. he said he would never do anything to hurt me yet he hasn't called me at all since the last time we had sex.. it's been about 4 days! What should I do? I have feelings for this guy! Should I wait or just forget about him?

JBeaucaire · Sep 15, 2008, 01:02 PM

Well, you won't forget about him, you know that.

You don't call him your boyfriend, either, so I"m presuming you are still basically in the early "Get to know you" phase of dating... so... what? What do YOU want to do next?

Don't tell us what you want HIM to do, that won't work. What do YOU want to do? You know WAY more about this guy than we do... enough to ignore this behavior or not?

falling23 · Sep 15, 2008, 01:33 PM

Well no he's not my boyfriend but I want him to be... I want to be with him I feel good when I'm with him... so what should I do?

JBeaucaire · Sep 15, 2008, 02:24 PM

Then sit back and wait. That's what is required to be the girlfriend of a non-communicative boy. So, practice waiting for his call now, you'll need to master it since this will be the norm.

Bright side - you can get caught up on your shows and your reading while you wait. That'll be good.

[Side thought] - You know, we answer a lot of questions on the forum here about boys who are obsessing about their girlfriends, usually too much... but I'm just wondering... wouldn't that be a better problem than one who isn't around?

I'm just thinking out loud.