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    ROCKY22COOPERS Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 14, 2008, 04:54 AM
    Upfront and everything has gone wrong!
    I was recently away and I really liked this guy, we got talking ( we had met before this), but the night before we were schedualled to leave, I asked him what he thought of me. He told me and I told him how I felt.When I got home I missed him so much so a few days ago I asked him if there was ever going to be an us? He asked me to meet him, but turned out he was working.:mad:
    I text him two nights ago asking it again but he didn't reply.
    Does he hate me or is he just shy?
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    Sep 14, 2008, 06:22 AM
    Does he hate me or is he just shy?
    Those are our only two options? Really?

    Ok, then he hates you. I REALLY wish there were more options... never realized things like this were THAT short on options.

    Anyway, think about it... does he hate you? Are there more options here? I mean, I could think of about 1000 and I'm not in the situation with you... but if you think those are the two...
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    Sep 14, 2008, 08:35 AM
    Does he hate me or is he just shy?
    Wow what choices for someone you just met. Relax, and give the guy the benefit of the doubt, as he does work, and has a life without you, hopefully.

    Do you really think he is going to just marry you by the end of the week? RELAX, and just go with the flow, and forget the trying to make something happen right now. What's your hurry to get all your dreams met in a day, or two?

    Your thinking way too much. Take your time, and get your answers for yourself.
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    Sep 14, 2008, 09:55 AM
    I asked him if there was ever going to be an us?
    Whatever made you think that there ever was going to be an "us"?
    That was a bit heavy,considering that you'd only given it a few days for a friendship to develop :(

    He asked me to meet him, but turned out he was working.
    Does that not tell you something? Did you get the hint? He prefers his work rather than you!!!
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    Sep 14, 2008, 04:42 PM
    Give him time, don't bug him for a relationship as it will scare him away. Just go hangout as friends for awhile and get to know each other. Txt him and say want to go to coffee or something, take it slow :) !
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    Sep 14, 2008, 05:18 PM
    It only been two days, give him some time. Maybe he been busy but it doesn't mean he hates you. You know him, we don't, so does he seem like a shy person to you?
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    Sep 14, 2008, 08:15 PM
    Slow down or before you know it you'll be scaring him away.
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