[blondies73]

I know a person who has been telling me that he went to a restaurant and met the owners. They were from Thailand he was American. They sent for him and flew him to Bangkok Thailand to meet their niece. He was flown three different times and decided not to marry her. H e was offered money to marry someone else. He said OK and picked out another girl who had a son. She was younger than he. They emailed each other for a few years. He went to Thailand and married her. She never even had sex with I'm. I have talked with him and he says that they have never even lived together for more than 3 months. She lives with her Grand Aunt in Corona with her son. He has lost two homes and has put so much money into saving this marriage that he is upside down. The marriage is a sham... they have never even slept together. She is going back to Thailand as soon as she get her papers. The two are preparing for the interview and lying through their teeth! Fake accounts have been set up and lies upon lies, have evolved. The interview is next week and it is all a bunch a liew and they think it is funny! I am tired of people who come here and laugh at our country. He is studpid for taking money... should I just stay out of it?

[lawanwadee]

1. He did all these on his own will... nobody forced him.
2. Obtaining US spouse visa takes so much time and efforts, and $$$. If he did not feel for her, he wouldn't be willing to go through all the difficulties to bring her and her son to US. Believe me, it's such a hassle.
3. Did you have his financial record? How did you know about his financial situation? Did he tell you?
4. How did you know they did not have sex? Did you believe this? I don't... :D

Wake up... he never had any feelings for you in the first place. My advice.. don't believe everything men said to you.

Move on... Good luck.